Jul 09
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Why Orgasms are Hard for Some Women
Achieving full on, oh my God, head spinning orgasms, is difficult for a lot of women. It can be difficult for some guys to achieve this level of sexual peak, but it’s often much harder for women to achieve, due to a variety of factors, including physiological ones that have to do with how a woman’s sexual anatomy is set up, and also because a lot of psychological reasons go into a woman sexually climaxing, where for men it’s more of a function of physiology that makes us climax more easily with each sexual intercourse encounter.
You often probably hear women say they think they need female sexual enhancement products of some sort, maybe like a female version of viagra, because they don’t feel that they orgasm often enough or that they have a hard time achieving that orgasm due to limitations. Tons of women have the same complaint, and that is, that they seem to feel the building of an orgasm, and it almost feels like the big orgasm is going to come, but then somehow, they lose it, and it’s almost like starting over, and they many times become discouraged and don’t even get into the sex again enough to orgasm, so often times, they leave the sexual experience without being totally satisfied whereas their partner may be totally satisfied with their orgasm experience.
An orgasm, for women, is like a series of pulsations in the vagina that also include an engorging of the vagina thanks to new blood flow due to sexual excitement down there, much like a man’s penis fills with blood when he gets sexually turned on. Her breathing quickens, her breasts may even swell a bit, and a sense of euphoria hits just as the “release” feeling of the orgasm hits. Many women may even lose control a bit, their toes curling, their mind temporarily blank, which is the ultimate release and a reason why men and women alike benefit from sex because it is a major stress reliever, making you forget all of your problems.
Many times the fact that a woman can build and build and feel like she’s going to experience that ultimate release that’s called an orgasm, and then find that they suddenly lost the feeling, has to do with her emotions in some way. Perhaps she lost focus, or it could also be a range of other psychological issues, which it mostly ends up being rather than an actual physical problem, since women closely link their emotions to sexual enjoyment.
The recommendation for women who experience this is to let go of all your sexual inhibitions, and perhaps any body image issues you may have the prevent you from fully enjoying sex. Some women even experience a general guilt feeling about having sex, and this has to be dropped if you are to enjoy the wonderful, God given pleasure of the female orgasm.
