Oct 10
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Why Don’t Some Men Go Down on Women?
I was having an interesting conversation with a girlfriend the other day (by the way, Jill here, giving you the female perspective on things), and she brought up that some of her past boyfriends have just straight up said they don’t give women oral sex. I thought, wow, that’s quite a bold statement to say, and it got me curious why some men just wouldn’t do it, period, no questions asked.
I mean hey, I’m a woman, and I know that our feminine hygiene is of vital importance because of where our hooha is located on the inside of our bodies. This orifice, like any other orifice, can obviously get a little nasty if it goes uncleaned, or ungroomed for that matter. A lot of women – and men – these days are into the pubic area grooming, so it’s sort of become the status quo for your nether regions to have it somewhat neat and shaped up.
I actually sort of get why some guys might be a little intimidated by it too, it’s not like us women are all that simple to figure out. But, and I say a big BUT, if we are willing to give you oral sex, then you should, no question about it, be willing to give us oral sex.
I would think that was straight up BS if I was willing to give head and my guy wasn’t. Because it is BS. If you’re in a loving, mutually beneficial and sexually satisfying relationship, and your woman says that oral sex is kind of fun, or even a big deal to her, you should DO IT. You know why? Because we will be all that much more passionate, dirty and your little plaything if you please us too!
Not only that, but come on, all guys love getting oral sex, and most women would be way more inclined to give you your oral sex if you were willing to go down on her at least every once in a while. I’ll admit, some women don’t really like it. It’s not a do or die situation for me, it doesn’t get me off personally. But is it a big deal that my man is willing to do it to me and isn’t totally grossed out by the prospect! Um, hell yeah! And I guarantee most women feel the same way as I do.
