When it comes to changing things up in you and your partner’s sex life, then you really need to go the way of the home shopper and think “location, location, location”. You know how important location is when you are buying a home. Shoot, it can determine how much you pay for the home, how much it will resell for, and is probably the single largest determining factor of the intrinsic value of that home. There’s a reason. Location means a lot to people, whether they are attending a country club, a restaurant, or  a workout facility. Heck, where your job is located is a huge deal too.

That’s because location makes things a lot different in your perspectives.  That goes for sexual intimacy as well.  Did you ever slip into that same bed, or that same place where you and your main squeeze seem to ALWAYS do the nasty, and just envision the same old romping as you’ve had every other time?  That’s because, like positions, the actual physical location of where you’re having intercourse make all the difference in the excitement and meaningfulness factor of your enjoyment of sex as well.

I recently had this epiphany, although it wasn’t really an epiphany since I knew for me that location made all the difference when it came to the kink and excitement factor of sexual interludes in the past. Why should it be any different today? The thing is, with these sorts of nuances and rules to good, fun sex, we tend to fall into ruts and habits and simply forget about the more exciting ways to get it on.

My husband and I recently were going to our usual location to have sex, and I had already visualized what our whole sexual experience was going to be like at that moment. Why? Because we’ve had sex in that same exact spot hundreds of times, and it was hard not to pigeonhole it into that same rerun in my mind.

I immediately turned around to him and said, hey, we need to go somewhere else, I realized how we were getting in a rut of doing it in the same place almost every time for quite a few months.  And guess what?  The sex was much less predictable and much more sexy, fun and exciting!  Talk about such a seemingly minor thing have major consequences on both of our enjoyment of sexual intimacy, that’s an example if I ever saw one.

So, with your lover, make sure you make it a point to change up locations and make it hot and sexy. Heck, it’s your house or your apartment to do as you please – get wild and crazy and do it on the kitchen or bathroom counter – the bathroom counter is especially naughty feeling because you have mirrors right in front of you, adding to that all important kink factor.

This entry was posted on January 22, 2010 at 1:16 pm. You can follow any responses to this entry through the RSS 2.0 feed. You can leave a response, or trackback from your own site.

Posted in Tips by David L No Comments Yet