For decades and decades, there has been a belief that women possess something called the G spot, the magical area somewhere in the vicinity of the vagina, the vulva and the clitoris. We all know (women that is) that the clitoris can be the proverbial pathway to heaven for us, just as the area many call the taint on men, the area right between his scrotum and his penis that is soft and cushy, can cause great pleasure, and great pain if too much pressure is used, when it is manipulated the right way.
The theory is that women have this area where there are clusters of nerve endings that make her super sensitive there, so it is very susceptible to pleasure sensations when it is properly stimulated by her partner or by herself. Men have tried for years, sometimes in vain, to find this spot on the women they bed or their partners, and there are indeed many women who report having one, but there are also a lot of women who do not think they have ever experienced an intense sensation of erotic pleasure by being touched in one certain place.
For many women, they just see general areas as erogenous zones where they like to be touched by their mate and pleasured. To experiment, you can talk to your mate about doing a sort of experimentation session where she lies on her back and you gently feel around, in a sensual way of course, not clinical, what fun is that? To enhance the female sexual experience, experimentation is almost a must.
Experimenting is the only way that you find these erogenous zones, and scientists readily admit that they can’t prove there is any such thing as the G spot, because every woman’s anatomy is so different, and feelings of pleasure are so subjective between different women.
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What are you getting me?
So, it’s Valentine’s Day, guys and girls, and you’d better have something special planned, especially if you’re the guy, for your lady. We girls tend to act like we don’t think V Day is such a big deal, but believe me, it doesn’t go unnoticed if you don’t get us squat! I remember one year my then-boyfriend forgot to get me anything and I was more than a little bit peeved about it! Don’t get me wrong, all I really want is chocolate, and he knows that now, but since he didn’t even get me anything I was fuming and wasn’t even willing to admit how hurt I was that he totally forgot to get me anything.
Chocolate is always good, and it is actually really somewhat of an aphrodisiac, that’s not a myth. Wine is always good, and of course a nice romantic dinner to go with it is always fantastic, that way no one has to worry about doing the cooking – unless you get to the cooking later in bed if you know what I mean! If you really want to please her, try out a great female sexual enhancement product on her, that’ll get both of your hearts pounding.
There are lots of ways to please your woman, but just make sure it’s thoughtful and planned out and that will impress her the most and also make her more inclined to be a bit more of a sex kitten in bed for you too. We ladies are very psychologically linked to our sex drives, so the more that you stimulate our egos and our minds, the more we want to please you in oh so many ways!
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You wouldn’t think that you’d often see “prostate cancer” and “suicide” mentioned in the same sentence for several reasons. One, because many times prostate cancer is very treatable unless it has already advanced to more serious stages, and two, because these two just don’t make sense together because one is a physical disease and the other is a symptom of a mental disease. Prostate health is of utmost importance, and this is just another reason why that is true for men. Read on for the odd connection between prostate cancer and suicide.
Prostate cancer is traditionally a slow growing cancer, which is why it is treatable in it’s early stages, and of course best if captured early on. It has been found that the mere diagnosis of prostate cancer actually is linked to higher suicide rates and also to higher rates of heart attack. What’s the connection though? It seems like the two, or actually three, events should not be related, so what gives?
Research that was conducted in over a twenty year time period after prostate cancer diagnosis showed the statistics clearly that men who were diagnosed tended to be much more likely to commit suicide, and they were also much more likely to have heart attacks than their non prostate cancer counterparts. Perhaps there is another unknown variable that puts men at risk for emotional problems as well as heart risks which also contributes to prostate cancer that we just don’t know about yet?
For this reason, scientists recommend that men who have been diagnosed with prostate cancer also under go counseling to help them with any emotional issues that may have been pre existing, or which also may get worse after diagnosis.
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We know that sexual activity benefits us in many ways, but when it comes to sex and our tickers, we kind of get mixed messages from the medical community on whether it’s kosher to have sex as we get older, or whether it might be too hard on the ol’ heart to have it when we get older. You hear so many stories about men having heart attacks while having sex, or not being “healthy enough” to have sexual intercourse on these Viagra and Cialis ads that caution you against taking their medicine and having intercourse.
Of course, they have to warn men that have pre existing heart conditions to not go on their medication so that these men do no suffer heart attacks from the increased blood flow and over excitement and stimulation of sex, but these types of messages have a sort of lasting effect on the male psyche, that having sex as you age may become a hazardous sport.
But research has shown that by and large that is not true, unless you do have some sort of pre existing heart condition that makes getting too excited dangerous to the function and rhythm of your heart. In fact, men who have normal functioning hearts may be up to two times more protected against heart attacks than men who do not have sex frequently.
If you think of it this way, sexual activity is sort of like a release, and it also is a little bit of physical activity that helps you to regulate your breath and condition your heart. If you are already an active person and you also have sex two times a week or more, well then, that is even better, because you get the benefits of the stress release and pleasure rush of sex, and you also have a healthy heart and lungs to begin with, which makes the sex all that much better and more stress busting.
Men who had sex at least twice a week were about 45% less likely to suffer heart related health conditions throughout their lives, and for men that is quite significant, since we men are the most vulnerable of the sexes to heart disease, although women sadly are quickly catching up with us on that note. We all know that sex is good for us, which is precisely the reason male enhancement has advanced so much in popularity.
But the physical aspect of having sex frequently isn’t the only likely reason that this bolsters your chances of reducing heart related conditions. Men who have sex more often with their partners are more likely to be in loving, supportive, mutually desirable relationships than men who have sex with their partners once a month or less, which also adds to their overall quality of life, and the contributing factors to heart disease are diminished in that way as well.
Thumbs WAY Up for "Hung"
Hey guys, Jill here, to discuss why I think that the new HBO show “Hung” – ok it’s not brand new any more, but I just started watching it on HBO on demand, and I think it’s a great show! I was skeptical at first, thinking it was just going to be HBO’s excuse for showing people having sex a lot of TV, because after all sex sells, and although it does show people having sex a lot, namely the main character, Ray Drecker played by Thomas Jane, there’s a lot more to this show than just penis, erections, and vagina and boobs.
Although, I must admit, even though I’m a women, I’m still a voyeur at heart, and I have to say that I love watching good looking people on film having sex and doing various other sexual deeds – it’s fun, and yes, it’s sort of a turn on if you must know – by the way guys, there are a LOT of women out there who enjoy watching porn and people having sex onscreen too, it’s not just guys as everyone seems to think sometimes.
And, of course, Thomas Jane is fun to look at and he attracts women like crazy, so that part pleases me as a woman greatly! But the story is a really good one too, honestly, it’s not all about the flesh, albeit good looking flesh. It’s about a down and out divorced father of two who has a modest paying job as a teacher and coach at a local high school, Ray Drecker. He really hits the skids when his only real possession, his house, burns down and he finds out he has no insurance to pay for the damage.
He attends a millionaire maker type of work shop, where he runs into an old one night stand named Tanya. Tanya’s not much to look at, but she’s got a big heart and they end up in the sack again together (like I said, there’s lots of sex in this show). Through a series of consequence, they end up deciding to use Ray’s biggest asset – his abnormally large penis, as a business starter. Tanya becomes his “pimp” and they embark on a business venture, and misadventure as you see through several of the mishaps that happen in their first forays into paid sex.
You really feel for the guy though, that’s what makes this show good. Somehow Ray Drecker really resonates with me, because he’s just a regular guy, faced with possible cutbacks at his high school, and barely making ends meet to begin with, who wants to make something of himself. His ex wife is played by Anne Heche, and she’s really awesome in this role too, if not a bit weird looking because it looks like she really may have had too much Botox (this is part of the story line too, she’s married to a high end dermatologist, who she left Ray for).
Great show, I recommend you check it out!
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It used to be that if you had an “oops” moment with your partner, or with a one time or occasional partner, however it was, and it was unprotected sex, or the condom broke or something else happened where you feared you might become pregnant from the romp, you had only very limited time to call a doctor and have them prescribe for you the most common morning after pill – called Plan B, or marketed under the drug name Levonorgestrel. From there, if you were more than three days out of the gate with your unprotected or questionably protected sex, you could just forget about it, because it’s effectiveness was only prescribed for three days after the event.
In other words, if it was three days or more after the sexual incident from which you were trying to prevent a full on fertilization of the egg by sperm, then you were SOL and would have to pursue a normal pregnancy termination, which I believe can only be done at 3 months, so a woman would have to be pregnant for three months knowing she was going to terminate the pregnancy, which is an awful psychological thing to go through for most women. And yes, I am Pro Choice, if you can’t tell already, and I’m a woman who has gone through these dilemmas myself and thought about what I would do if that happened to me, so I feel that I am close to the subject matter.
When it comes to female sexuality, a lot of people (and yes, a lot of them are men which I think is particularly unfair since they don’t know what pregnancy is like), seem to think that women don’ t have a choice, and that once they are pregnant, that’s it, they’ve made their choice, and no matter what their life situation or goals or aspirations are, they should just deal with it and have the child and give it up for adoption or take care of it themselves.
That is why the “abortion pill” as it’s been dubbed is such a life saver for a lot of women. It takes a lot of the ethical considerations, and although it doesn’t get rid of them because it’s been debated at what moment life actually begins, it at least makes it a lot easier on the woman. A new pill actually allows a woman to take the morning after pill up to 5 days after unprotected sexual intercourse, which is a whole two days more than the current existing 3 day morning after pill, which gives a lot more leeway for a couple or a single woman to have control over their bodies and their life situations.
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We’ve all heard that somewhat cliche term now “mid life crisis” or how about midlife crisis mobile? That’s the funny term someone coined for a middle aged man who goes out and buys some ridiculous fast sports car when he has only up until then driven reliable cars like Hondas and Toyotas. But new research is suggesting that there really is no such thing as a mid life crisis, at least not any more, and not for the modern man (and yes, occasionally women can go through these too, but theyr’e a predominantly male thing).
The new research shows that men and women are typically actually happier as they approach and pass the age of 50, which is officially mid life for the population, who is living longer today than back when this “disorder” was coined by a psychologist to describe the weird things that (typically) men do when they reach this age, like have affairs, go out and do things they’ve never done before, and live life on the wild side a little bit, acting younger than their actual biological age.
You see, research is showing that we as a people are actually evolving and learning to appreciate “mid life”, since we live longer, and the perception is shifting to not being half over, but to being more confident, more knowledegable about yourself, and more secure in your desires and dreams. People tend to do the things they really truly love with their lives when they reach this age because they are past a lot of the self judgment and self doubt that plagued them in their earlier years. Sounds good, now mid life doesn’t sound so bad at all! It’s not all having to pop Viagra for sexual performance, and drinking beer on the sofa, only to go to a dead end job the next day!
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Boy oh boy, that dude that made up with his wife sure did piss off his mistress! You probably read the story, it was on pretty much every major news outlet, since the guy is a head honcho over at Oracle, one of the biggest software companies in Silicone valley, and also happens to be an advisor to the Obama administration as well. If you haven’t read about the story yet, here it is, and lesson be learned to all men who lead ladies to believe something else or happen to break up with them the wrong way, especially ladies who believe in revenge and vengefulness, you gotta watch out for people like that in your life, actually no matter what sex you’re talking about.
Now, I’m not trying to be chauvenistic here, we all know that men can be just as vindictive as women when they feel they’ve been wronged by the opposite sex, but you have to be particularly careful in how you deal with ending things with partners, especially if they seem particularly hurt or have expressed that you’ve given them mixed signals.
That’s exactly what it sounds like happened to the Oracle guy. Apparently he had a years-long affair with a woman, and yes, he is married and has a child with his wife. The mistress found out that he had reconciled with his wife, and to get back at him, she posted billboards in major cities of the two of them in a sort of nuzzling, affectionate position that was clear they were more than just friends.
The man has come out and acknowledged the affair, but says that the two ended the affair on amicable terms and will remain friends. Sounds like someone is in denial about how this relationship ended, and it may not the be one who went off and did the crazy ex thing of posting billboards! Relationships and love are funny, but when people get hurts it’s really not, and it can turn ugly fast.
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My Pink Button - New Vagina Confidence?
Hey guys, Jill L here, guest writer from a lady’s perspective, which no offense guys, you all need once in a while! Anyways, I had to write about this interesting article I read a few days ago because I think it’s bordering on comical, and yet is marketing genius at the same time to an increasingly sexually aware and sexualized society we live in. We live and breathe for sex – and food, but you know what I men, sex is great, and that’s why sexual enhancement products for women and men is such a huge field and hotly talked about item. I’ll be the first to admit I have quite a few experience with fun sex toys and experimentation under my belt!
I never really thought about this aspect of the female sexual anatomy, but as we women get older, our nether regions, which are normally pink and plump looking when we are young, actually turn a brownish color as we age. Yuck, I know, not something I’m going to be happy to discover when I happen to be mucking around down there when I get older, I’m sure. This is probably due to hormonal changes and just aging in general.
Not really sure what the exact physiological cause of it is, but the bottom line is it is something that women of a certain age may find not so attractive or alluring about themselves as they get older, and may want to change or help it change color back to it’s more youthful stance.
That’s where a new, quirky product called My Pink Button comes in. This product is actually a body safe dye that women can use that will tint their privates back to a pink color. It is is a consumption safe food dye that actually helps turn the area back into it’s youthful pink, supple look. And they said there were no cosmetics for the vajayjay – just look at this now! I do wonder though, how often they think someone’s going to be right down there in their business to actually see the color of their labia and other external parts like their clitoris.
Shoot, there must be some ladies that get lucky quite often in that department to make such a great market for something like this for a fairly obscure and hidden part of the female anatomy. But, there is a market for just about everything, and this surely is a niche that will have ladies wanting more if it really works and makes them feel better about themselves. Hmm, should our next topic be about giving women oral sex? I think a lot of women may feel their partners neglect this area for them and a lot of women really like this, so let’s talk about that topic next time!
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Could It Be?
Wow, this could certainly be a controversial statement, and I certainly wouldn’t want to be standing in a room of staunch feminists if I were the scientist that was trying to make this claim, but some evidence of chromosomal and DNA research is showing that the Y chromosome (this is what actually makes a man a man), which is expressed in the males of the human species, is actually showing that it evolves faster than the female chromosome, which may allude to the fact that men are on track to evolve quicker than women will.
Of all the human chromosomes out there, the Y chromosome seems to be the one that is evolving the quickest, and it’s showing in monkeys, our closest relatives genetically speaking too, in fact that’s how scientists found out about this rapid evolution – from male chimpanzees, who are our closest relative when it comes to animal-human relations.
What does this mean exactly? Well, not too much on the surface, everything pretty much seems to be the same to us here at the surface of humanity, but below, there is much to study as it can have implication on genetic research from here going forward that can help treat and cure disease and other things.
The interesting part about the y chromosome is that several years back, science hypothesized that the Y chromosome would die out and that men would eventually become exinct, with women inheriting the world. Interesting….
