While most men would view a low libido as a potentially serious problem, or at the very least, something they would want to fix right away, most women don’t look at the case of a low female libido as a huge deal.  They feel like they’ll just deal with it, where for men it’s more of a blast to the ego, and they also want to have that libido so that they can enjoy sex once again, or at least so they can want to have it more often so they can enjoy it. 

Low libido in women is the most common sexual dysfunction among women in fact, but many women don’t even view it as that much of a problem.  Perhaps this was how God programmed them, so that they would not forever be churning out babies, and putting their bodies through all that time and time again.  That’s how a lot of women view it, but they also admit that it’s just not high on their priority scale unless their partners are really upset and it begins to cause relationship problems that are serious enough to warrant some sort of preventive treatment action.

In fact, only a little over 10% of women with low sexual libido are actually bothered by it enough to seek treatment of some other sort of female sexual enhancement product that does not require a doctor’s prescription -a sort of female Viagra if you will, but one that does nto require a prescription.

A major problem with diagnosing “low libido” in women is that it’s hard to say what just isn’t normal to the individual.  For example, maybe your partner thinks you have a low sex drive but you have always had the same sex drive and feel that it’s ok the way it is.  Or say a doctor compares one patient’s reports of sexual desire frequency to another patient’s frequency reports of sexual desire and one has a much higher frequency. Can’t we just chalk it all up to differences between individuals instead of a “problem”. 

Many women feel that way, and feel as though they are viewed as the one with the problem, or the “weird” one when in fact they feel their sexual appetite is totally normal.  How do you guys feel about your partners?  Let us know if you have any stories that might help shed some light on the female sexual appetite and psyche here today, I think it’d do a lot of men good knowing it’s not really anything they’re doing wrong, it’s just than women are different than men sexually speaking. 

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