Recently there was a survey conducted by Askmen.com which concluded a few things that might be a little surprising about men and what they are looking for in their potential life partners/wives.  They weren’t all about more sex in every way and sexiness either, breast size, or weight or any of that.  In fact, most of it was nonsexual and also was non appearance related, although “sexiness” did rank up there, which to me mostly means having a sexy attitude and a sex appeal, it’s not all necessarily about just looking sexy, at least that’s the way I took it.

The highest rated attribute men are looking for in potential wife material is apparently “loyalty”, which I take to mean that a woman will not go catting around, seeking the company of other men and will stick solely to her chosen partner (you), so apparently women who cheat or have a wandering eye are a really big turnoff to men. I guess that women who are huge flirts may have a real problem meeting their partner’s expectations then, knowing that most men value loyalty so highly.  Is it because we are all fragile egoed creatures who can’t stand the idea that our ladies might like the attention of other men?  Not really, I think it’s more of a latent desire for monogamy, even though a lot of science shows that men’s chemistry isn’t so conducive to monogomy.  This finding may debunk that though.

Loyalty even was chosen above and beyond other characteristics of a life partner such as caring, sense of humor and intelligence, which are huge on most men’s radar, even though some might also tell ya that some men like dumb women!  I think there are some guys I know that don’t really like women who challenge them intellectually, but for the most part, men do want someone whose intelligence will keep them on their toes and someone they can actually talk to and have stimulating conversations with. After all, that’s what long lasting relationships are built on, is understanding eachother, and intellectual equality is huge in that regard.

Men also tend to say that they would not cheat on a partner that they deemed worthy of them as far as sexual chemistry, values, morals, and sense of things, even if there was not a chance that she would ever find out, something that conflicts with what a lot of the women out there think about men (that we’re all pigs, it’s definitely not true).

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