Although some still consider the naughty and sexually erotic ritual of anal sex to be somewhat of a taboo and even a fetish, there are many women who say that although they initially found anal sex uncomfortable, they now enjoy it.  However, as with anything else, it should probably be kept to a minimum since the anus is really not meant for large objects to be shoved in, and of course there could be some irritation involved if it’s not done the right way, or if it’s overdone.  That’s something to keep in mind maybe if you’ve just started dabbling in this kinky form of sexual enjoyment.

It may not be for everybody, but there are certainly people that say they enjoy engaging in it every once in a while, for a change of pace.  I do think there’s something forbidden about it, as most men consider it to be a kinky variation of traditional sex, and truth be told, most men are turned on by the occasional prospect of their partner being “into” anal sexual intercourse.  Maybe some may not own up to it, but trust me, there is something about it that has an allure to men.

Here are some tips to making anal sex more comfortable for women that will definitely help with first, second and third experiences to relax the muscles and prevent any sort of injury and minimize discomfort.  First, it is vital that you breathe slowly.  If you don’t inhale and exhale in long, controlled bursts, then your muscles are more likely to contract and the feeling of anal sex is more likely to be uncomfortable since the muscles are clenched and the friction becomes more noticeable.  Start very slow.  Do not allow your partners penis to go much furth than an inch in at first.  Once you feel it is in, then breathe slowly, and you will feel it open up more and begin to take more of the penis in.

Make sure you are in a comfortable position where you are not too clenched up and your muscles can relax as much as possible.  If need be, use a gentle lubricant such as KY jelly or some other form of lubricant.  There is a gel called Anal Ease, which I believe also contains a numbing agent to make the penetration easier and more comfortable, but I’ve never had any experience with it.  All in all, you cannot go all the way the first time, or even the second time, this has to be a slow, building process to get you to where you can actually enjoy it without the discomfort and possible injury that comes along with it.

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