May 10
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How to Extend Foreplay
I read a great article that really struck a cord with me, especially as a woman who always complains that there is never enough foreplay in our sex lives. Women generally really like foreplay with their sexual interludes. That is, unless we’re behind on laundry and the dishes and we need you to do a wham bam thank you mam, and the sex really wasn’t our idea at that moment. He he. Just kidding, but not really. You see, women are constantly thinking about what they need to do next, and they are always planning their next chore or goal, that’s just how women work.
So, sometimes we may not be totally focused on sex unless it’s after a party where we’ve drank a lot and we’ve flirted our asses off with you all night. Just sayin. However, for those times when both of you are into getting hot and heavy, it’s important to really draw out the foreplay aspect of sex. As they say, the longer it takes to get to something, the more you want it.
Foreplay, good foreplay at least, makes it so that your every cell is quivering for the final act by the time it comes around. When there is no foreplay, our bodies – both men and women’s are not adequately primed for sex. I know that “primed” makes us sound like we’re a pump or a lawn mower or something, but hey, our bodies are, after all, somewhat of a mechanical device. Especially when it comes to sex.
There are certain parts that are uber sensitive to touch, and if you start tempting each part with a light touch, a little lick, a lingering suck, then you are really priming the pump so to speak so that the final orgasm will be a summit of pleasure for each partner, and you feel closer to eachother every time you do it. This isn’t to say that you’ll always have the extra time (or imagination) that it takes to do the foreplay thing the right way every time.
Lord knows the quicky has it’s time and place, and that will never change. Just be careful that your sex life doesn’t become only made up of quickies. That can quickly lead to stagnation in your sex life as partners, so you want to make the time to do it right once a week – pick a day on the weekend when you don’t have much going on, and stick to that schedule.
