Oct 09
18
How the Pill Affects Women’s Sexual Choices
I think that we have discussed this before, and I certainly think that it is a fascinating topic, and one that points to the power of things like hormones, and those unseen pheromones as a powerful force in how we all choose our sexual mates and how we choose people that we think we’d like to actually settle down with. Well, there is more evidence that the birth control pill affects the way that women choose the men the sleep with and lust after versus the men that they choose as life partners and potential candidates for being daddy to their eventual babies.
Women on the pill have consistently demonstrated that they are more attracted to men who are not as outwardly macho and “manly”, and who probably have better potential as future husbands and life partners. The reason is, in the back of their subconscious mind, and for good reason, women know that the men that do have deeper voice, more machismo acts, and overall are more masculine in appearance and nature, tend to not be the best options for lifetime mates.
The perception, and perhaps the real issue is that men like this tend to be a little more flaky, a little more out for the fling and bedding as many women as they possibly can, and a little less attentive, appreciative and responsible when it comes to eventual dad duties and overall financial and household independence.
Women routinely have picked men with less masculine looking faces when they are on the pill versus women who are not on the pill, adding to the suspect outcome that women who are on the pill and have less testosterone circulating, and more regulated estrogen hormones, are more likely to go for the men with the less chiseled, manly features and square jaw lines, and the men with less chiseled features and more effeminite traits.
Most women, in all honesty, probably don’t even know or understand that they are doing this, it’s really just the subconscious at work, similar to the inner workings of the pheromones which attract women to men and vice versa. It’s sort of an unseen force that gently, almost imperceptibly, guides our hands in one direction or another, at different times in our lives.
In other news, apparently a woman’s spirituality has a lot to do with how sexual she is, and how much she enjoys having sex, which also happens to include how often she has sexual relations, however, for whatever reason, the same finding did not apply to men, they had the same level of sexuality and sex frequency no matter whether they were spiritual or not.
I guess this sort of points to the overall discrepancy between men and women, which is that men tend to not involved emotions in sex as much as women do, and we are more biologically driven to have sex at any cost than women, which may also explain the difference between the two.
