Aug 09
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Housework Might Get You More Sex
For all the married men and all the involved men out there who happen to cohabitate with their better halves, there is something that you might want to know about how you can keep getting good sex with your partner, and also make for a better, more peaceful environment at home. As they say, when she’s happy, she’ll keep the bedroom on fire, when she’s not, you won’t be seeing the underwear on the floor for many days or weeks at a time.
Women are a bit different than men in that they are much more influenced by their emotional feelings toward their partner and feelings like resentment when it comes to wanting to have sex than men are. Men are influenced by these feelings to some extent as well, but men are biologically programmed to want sex more and more often, and so this easily overcomes those emotions sometimes and one need surpasses the other.
One of the biggest complaints today by women here in the US and overseas is that their male counterparts do not pick up enough of the slack around the house or if their are kids involved, some of the kid duties either. When surveyed, women in Great Britain and men indicated that while men spend a little under 8 hours a week doing chores around the house, women spend almost triple that amount of time around the house doing things like cleaning, cooking and taking care of business. And by taking care of business I don’t mean taking care of the needs of your penis, but other things like financial matters, housework and so on and so forth.
This huge discrepancy, which is actually the norm in most households with the occasional one off where men take care of a lot more in the home, causes a lot of friction and resentment in a relationship, and fighting for equality takes over the need to make love. When you fight less and harbor less resentment toward one another, what a shock, things get way better in the bedroom! What a concept.
Men who were surveyed that said they were in very happy relationships where their women were also happy indicated that they were sexually satisfied and that they also happened to share a lot of the housework which comes as no surprise since this helps to quell any feelings of resentment on the woman’s part and also helps to settle spats in a relationship. So, men if you want to get her pants off more often, draw her attention away from your slacker ways and start to make a new promise to yourself and to her that you will pick up some of the housework and make her life easier, and actually make her love you more!
