Nov 10
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Guys Need to Learn a Thing or Two About Sex
Hey guys, Jill here. And no, I know that headline sounds like I’m guy bashing, but really I’m not. I’m just concerned for the thousands of women who are frustrated by guys who are either selfish in bed or just need to be told how to please women, but haven’t, and their poor partners who usually put up in silence and dissatisfaction.
Ok, well, that does sound like I’m bashing, but hey, I’m genuinely concerned about the growing epidemic of lack of sexual knowledge about the female anatomy and what women really want in bed. A man who knows where to touch a woman and knows how to get her to orgasm is the biggest female aphrodisiac there is, trust me.
Often times women feel like guys “should just know”, but often men do not “just know”, and the guys who do know how to please a woman in bed are either just naturally incredibly gifted and intuitive about human needs, or they were taught by many knowledgeable and sexually liberated female partners over the years.
They became students of sexuality in other words, noticing what made women go wild and what seemed to leave them cold, and for that reason they become rewarded with getting laid a lot. Not a bad reward for paying attention and worrying about something other than your own penis, is it!?
One of the biggest complaints that I hear from women is that their partners don’t go down on them enough, or that they don’t do enough foreplay, but yet they still expect to get blow jobs and have their women dress in kinky outfits for them. It doesn’t work like that.
Women expect to be blown off their feet once in a while in exchange for us being the naughty vixens you want us to be once in a while, and a wife that’s not sexually pleased is a wife that doesn’t want to sexually please her husband and do those naughty porno things that turn him on so much. My advice to you guys is to really study up on what women want.
After all, if sex occupies so much of your thoughts every day, why can’t you study it and make sure you’re good at it – so you ultimately get a LOT MORE of it in the future!? Like I said, good sex and a man who knows what he’s doing is the biggest aphrodisiac and sexual enhancement tool for driving women wild. Makes sense, no!??
