Aug 09
15
Did Ya Ever Notice….
That you just don’t last that long in bed when you haven’t had sex in a while? It’s always sort of a let down you feel to your partner when you haven’t had sex in like a few weeks, a week, or whatever happens to constitute a “long time” to you and your sexual partner, spouse or whatever, and you finally do the deed and end up lasting like 2 minutes, or worse like one minute. I mean, hopefully you and your partner are candid enough with eachother where this sort of thing can be like a funny little joke between the two of you, but it always does make you feel a little inadequate as a lover.
What’s the lesson here, my friend? Well, to have sex often! Sex is therapeutic, it lowers blood pressure in the long term, and the more you have, the better your mood generally is. Have you ever known people who just don’t have sex? Well quite frankly, they act like they have sticks up their butt or something, for a good reason. Sexual anxiety builds easily, and when you don’t have that release often enough, not only do you get anxious, but you also have those moments increasingly where you can only get a hard on for a few minutes. Having sex often is not only great exercise and good for the heart, mind, soul and relationship, but it also can actually improve your sexual performance overall as well.
There are some things you can do in between your sexual interludes with your wife or partner though that will help you last longer the next time you make love. For one, autoeroticism, aka masturbation, will help you last lots longer the next time you get in bed with your honey. Also, there are some penis exercises that may help you to not only last longer and have better sexual performance, but they also can help you attain a larger penis when erect by encouraging muscle lengthening of the penis when it is in a flacid state. These exercises must only be done in a flacid state so that the risk of injury to the penis is lower.
Speaking of masturbation, I think we might talk a little about that in the next update. My partner and I were just talking about how we don’t know when eachother indulges in self stimulation, and we don’t really want to know. After all, there are some things that should always be sacred, no? Masturbation to me is still a very private affair, and should remain that way, unless you get into sharing that with your partner. That’s all a totally individual thing, like everything else sexual!
