Well, fellas, it’s Valentines day, named after St. Valentine, the patron of love and devotion. It’s that day when you get a dirty look, and perhaps even some hesitance toward intimate interaction from your lady if you screw this one up. Sure, some couples don’t really celebrate, but why not at least get your honey [...]
Hey guys, Jill here to offer you once again, the perspective from the female side of the brain. Hmm, this is the first time I heard that forgiveness is NOT good for a relationship. Apparently, some new crazy research is showing that forgiveness and letting go is not all that it’s cracked up to be [...]
If you’ve done any amount of extensive dating in your life, even when you were much younger, and now you’re in a stable, good relationship, you can probably identify with this rather common sex-trap. It’s the trap that many a women and men fall in to. The one where you are very sexually attracted to [...]
It’s a well known fact that the holidays are full of excitement and joy. However, what they are also full of for a lot of people is stress and anxiety and lack of libido. Everyone feels the need to be perfect, to have money to buy the perfect gifts for everyone. To be the perfect [...]
Hello, Jill here again. I wanted to talk about something that we’ve broached here a few times on MEM, which is the topic of cheating spouses, cheating partners, and just cheating on someone you love or are in a committed relationship with in general. I of course am against the idea of cheating, but I [...]
Hi guys, Jill here offering my perspective on the thought that marriage is on it’s way out as a tradition here in the US. Is marriage really becoming a fragile, old fashioned constitution between two people who vow to be true friends and lovers to one another until they die? Or are we just becoming [...]
Hey guys, Jill here, offering a woman’s perspective on things as usual. I wanted to talk to you about something that me and one of my best girlfriends refer to as “hotel sex”. This name, to us, is synonymous with great, dirty, carefree sex.The kind of sex that you and your significant other or hubby [...]
As a woman (Jill here), I’ve often found myself wondering about whether or not my marriage will ever fall into the same trap that over half of all other marriages fall into – the divorce and separation one to be specific. The divorce rate is extremely high these days, after all, over fifty percent, and [...]
Well, it seems that there really is a male celebrity cheating epidemic going on here. I swear, it’s enough to make any woman with a husband in the public eye paranoid as all get out that her hubby, even if he seems sweet and unassuming is on the prowl, soliciting affairs when he’s not around [...]
Or why does anyone divorce after they’ve been together for 15 years or more? I’ve always wondered that myself. I guess there is always the “growing apart” excuse, but even that seems like a thinly veiled attempt to explain why suddenly, after all those years of sticking through the good and bad times, which there [...]