Hey, we all know that this happens to us once in a while, but there are men who experience this almost every time they get intimate with their partner(s), and it can obviously be quite an embarrassing debacle if you have to go through it all the time.  Not only that, but men who experience this often don’t have the best orgasms either, so not only can it be embarrassing, but it can also put a huge dent in your sexual satisfaction meter as well.

The Priligy product is going to be a fairly expensive one, ringing in at about $116 for a pack of three pills – that’s right, you read correctly – 3 measly pills. Sheesh, this stuff must be like gold – at least I would hope!  The pill must be taken about three hours before you plan on having intercourse, and it is being touted (probably by the maker of course) as being the next big thing in male sexual enhancement and prolonging of the sexual experience and heightening of the quality as well.

You have to wonder how awesome a drug is to cost that much per pill. If anyone that reads this gets their hands on some or has heard of anyone having an experience with Priligy, would you mind commenting here and sharing your story, as I’m sure we’re anxious to hear it.  It is not to be prescribed to men over the age of 64 right now, so this must be some pretty potent stuff.

Usually when something that is sexual like this is not prescribed past a certain age, it means that they don’t think men over a certain age have the tickers to handle such sexual activity without over exciting themselves. That’s why you gotta stay in shape for a long time guys!  Remember to read our review of Provacyl, the ultimate male supplement. It’s not only excellent for sexual enhancement, but it is an overall health enhancement supplement for men who are health conscious.

I think we’ve all had moments like that, and we can all certainly relate to that happening once in a while, but can you imagine having a hard time every time when you have sex, climaxing? That would almost be torture. But that’s not the only bad sexually related problem that has been closely linked to habitual marijuana smoking. Also, premature ejaculation has been closely linked to it as well, another frustrating, and also embarrassing (hey, at least when you take forever, your partner tends to think you’re pretty amazing in bed stamina-wise), when you can’t seem to finish the job for your partner’s sake.

Researchers think that this finding may be because men are self medicating to delay orgasm with pot, and it sometimes is having too good an effect (not being able to orgasm at all, not good), or it’s having the opposite effect, which is to make them pop to fast (premature ejaculation, or something like that, just not able to last beyond 30 seconds or so).

By the way, apparently Aussie men are the highest on the pot smoking chart. Apparently Australians like their weed. I’ve gotta admit, in my pot smoking days in college, I did think it made sex more fun, but that was back then, I haven’t tried it again in years, so I wonder if that still would hold true for me.

You know men, that sex always feels better at the end when you have an orgasm from having sex for a long time, rather than a quickie orgasm, so there is really a partially selfish motivation here, I must admit.

You can take some of them together, but the one thing you always have to be aware of is any drug interactions that might take place if you are on any prescription medications, and with any herbs, you want to make sure you’re not popping a ton of different pills all day, since the individual supplements can be a high potency and may actually be overload.

That’s exactly why I like to take the all in one products, you know you’re not having to pop several different pills to get the same effect, and you also know that you are not “overdosing” on several different kinds that are in larger doses individually.  Some of the herbs and vitamins I like to take on a daily basis that I believe help with your overall energy levels to begin with are ginseng, a potent vitamin C esther, and a multivitamin.

There is a great all around supplement for men called Provacyl that combines several vitamins and mineral vital to a man’s energy levels and overall performance as well called Provacyl that does the trick.

Ginseng is one of my favorites for endurance because it imparts energy without making you feel shaky or giving you heart palpitations.  Other energy giving supplements do tend to do that to me though, like the ones that are straight up stimulants. There is probably a time and place for those, but they are definitely not for a daily basis.

B vitamins are crucial to sustained energy.  B6 and B12 especially. These are known to boost energy levels, and may also have a similar effect on the mood. They are a good staple not only for endurance but also for overall mental performance and physical fitness.

Every guy has had at least one run in with this embarrassing and seemingly always untimely occurrence.  Premature ejaculation is what happens when you only get a few pumps in before you orgasm, or peak sexually.  It of course does not always mean that you “come” because men can ejaculate without actually orgasming, but you are done, finito, finished for sex for at least a few minutes if not more because your penis loses it’s rigidity and goes flacid again, unable to continue with the lovemaking process since it requires a hard (erect) penis to continue.

Isn’t nature cruel sometimes?  Anyways, there are these funky new anesthetic-based sprays that are being tested as weapons against premature ejaculation in men so that they can continue to have sex without letting go, for a longer period of time.  It tends to give men more confidence.  What the anesthetic spray does is it takes away some of the feeling – it numbs the penis so that you don’t get as much sensation and therefore you won’t “pop” quite as quickly.  Quite a simple concept, but some guys may like to try it.

There are a lot of different things men can do to try to increase their sexual endurance, they can take products like Enhance 9, which is a male libido booster and sexual enhancement supplement so that men can hold in their longer and have larger and more fulfilling erections, or they can try something topical.  There are also breathing methods and relaxation methods, as well as mental tricks that some guys use to stave off their ejaculation to provide a more fulfilling sexual experience for both them and their partner.

I practice yoga and I happen to love it.  I try to do it about 2-3 times a week right now, which I am trying to get a little higher with intermittent different practices as well as other aerobic activity, which is all part of a program to get my weight back on track after way too much holiday food indulgence.  I’m sure many of you can relate.  I’m not by any means an advanced yogic practitioner, but I’m not a total beginner either.

I would say I’m moderately flexible and my breathing techniques, which is a large part of successful yoga practice, are pretty good at this point and I’m ready to try to move to more difficult levels.  Let me tell you, some people may think that the hard part about yoga is the poses and holding them for x amount of minutes, but the hardest part for me was to be “in the moment” and focused on my body and my breathing at all times.

Because I tend to have my mind go in twenty directions at one time, one of the reasons I wanted to start yoga was to still my mind and be able to concentrate and focus on something that was immediately before me as a task, instead of thinking ahead to what I had to do and accomplish in the hours, days, and life ahead of me.  This is really hard for a lot of people, to create this still mind so to speak, and it was certainly the hardest part for me.

However, if a man can do yoga and do it well, making sure he breathes properly and also making sure that he focuses on his body and draws his mind inward, he can gain tremendous benefits in his sexual prowess, and many times even dramatically improve cases of premature ejaculation, which is one of the most common sexual dysfunction problems of men, followed by impotence.

Premature ejaculation is particularly frustrating and embarrassing for men, and doing yoga has proven nearly as effective as pharmaceutical treatments with Prozac, an antidepressant, so this is good news, especially considering that one is great for you all around and the other is a potentially lifelong drug that people have to be on!

So, what are some of the things that men have to “look forward to” when it comes to their penises?  Do we have a lifetime full of fun surprises in store, or might we be one of the lucky ones that happens to not have any of the typical issues that most men have as they age, and their penis does also.  Premature ejaculation and the inability to get or maintain an erection and stay in the flacid state are the two most common problems that there are for men with aging penises, and they are easily overcome these days with many different medications, take for instance two of the top sellers – Viagra, Cialis and Levitra.

Even cognitive therapy can be useful for men who have experienced impotence, but for whom no medications for erectile dysfunction (ED) have worked.  It is increasingly accepted that men suffer from psychological erectile dysfunction now as well, whereas in the past the typical school of thought on this was that men only suffered erectile dysfunction because of problems with their “plumbing”.

Other problems cited by aging men with their penis and hence their sex lives are (some say) shrinkage. Some men actually report that they think their penis has shrunken in size.  Certain things do shrink as we age, and certain thinks expand, but it’s usually due to weight gain, weight loss, and muscle gain and muscles mass loss, not anything having to do with the actual tissue composure of the penise.  Perhaps perception is that the penis has shrunken because a man does not get as hard as he used to or has trouble maintaining the hard, long and fat erections of his youth.

However, there is really no evidence that any actual real “shrinkage” takes place on the penis due to age.  Hence the immense popularity of penile enlargement products, penis enlargement exercises and the like, and instruments like penis extenders that are supposed to help gently guide the penis mechanically to a larger size and girth in it’s flacid state.

So, while we are experiencing all the physical joys of aging (yes I’m being facetious), we can know that age does bring one thing that is priceless and valuable, and that is wisdom, courage and fearlessness that come with the years we have under our belt.  I love how the older I get, the more I feel that I don’t care so much what every single person thinks of me, and instead I do what’s right for me, and what I feel is best for the people around me, I think that beats any sort of youth any day personally.

Problem is, there are a lot of men who have to deal with premature ejaculation, which is an embarrassing dysfunction of the sexual organ the penis, where the man comes way before his partner is most likely satisfied – say in a minute or less, and this is a real problem for some relationships, unless their idea of a satisfying sexual interlude equates to a minute of lust. 

And, even worse is the fact that sometimes ejaculation comes before the man has even inserted his penis into the vagina.  Many men report this as being extremely embarrassing, so much so that it causes great emotional trauma and distress in the men it affects since sexual prowess and skill is a large part of most men’s egos as we all know too well!  Not only that, but orgasms that come too fast often don’t pack the same punch, if at all, as the orgasms that come after a more lengthy encounter.

This is why products like Prosolution pills and Deer antler plus help, because they help in the longevity and endurance department when it comes to having sexual relations.  They help to energize the body so that it is able to draw the experience out more, and sometimes a cream or gel may be in order that puts a bit of desensitization in the mix so that the penis is not so sensitive to the friction that occurs when sexual intercourse is taking place, or some other sexual movement that causes orgasm. 

As far as external creams or gels, you can often purchase accompanying external product if you buy a supplement, and this externally helps to numb the area a bit – but don’t worry – it should wear off after appropriate timing is up, so that you still enjoy a powerful release when the time comes, but you’re not ejaculating before the proper amount of time has elapsed and your partner has had a satisfying experience as well.  So you see, a cream or gel combined with a supplement is usually a great win/win situation for both sexual partners. . .

Some of them are numbing creams that help you to not get enough sensation to make you orgasm too early (this means before your partner orgasms, guys), and there are also herbal products for natural male enhancement that will help you with that stressful staying power, like Deer Antler Plus (which by the way, is supposed to give you mind blowing, multiple orgasms as well), and also others that are specifically formulated to increased endurance during sex like Enhance 9, VigRX (one of our personal favorites guys) and others too numerous to mention here in this little spot. 

Guys, although there are some excellent products that you can place on the penis externally, as well has herbally based products that you can take orally to help you through a rough patch of being a “two pump chump”, but there are also some natural ways you can help the situation out yourself, without taking something to help. 

Focus on your breathing.  Some men tend to hold their breath, or breathe too fast when they are having sex, which can not only interfere with a complete and satisfying orgasm in men, but can also make you ejaculate too soon.  Yoga might be good for those of you who have a particularly hard time in this area.  Also, just breathing techniques that help you focus on your breath can help you to regulate breath during times of stress and times of stress. 

Sometimes, when you feel like you are going to have an orgasm or ejaculate too quickly, you may want to focus your attention on something other than your partner, or something that is not sexual at all, like think of going to the dentist or something that won’t further excite you, so you can hold out a little longer for a better orgasm for your partner and yourself.  And, you won’t have to be insecure or feel as though you let your partner down if you can just make sure it lasts a little longer than two pumps! 

 Male infertility should not be confused with impotence.  This term refers only to the inability to produce a sperm that can fertilize an egg.  Premature ejaculation refers to a male’s orgasm coming on too quickly. This is not considered the same thing as impotence but it can cause problems with intimacy with your partner.  Counseling is recommended for premature ejaculation for the couple and also for natural libido help.
 As a couple, if impotence is a problem, make sure you communicate with one another.  Anxiety about sexual performance should be discussed by both and counseling is helpful.  Unresolved anger and conflict may be expressed by the male holding back on their erection.  Due to the complexity of human sexuality, all the physical and psychological aspects of impotence problems should be addressed when meeting with counselors and physicians. 

We are going to talk about this a little more, after I research a little more thoroughly, but hypnotism is used for everything from stopping procrastination, to smoking cessation and weight loss, to, well, sexual enhancement and premature ejaculation. 

There are some excellent hypnosis programs out there on CD, and yes, I believe still tape as well, that allow you to basically put yourself in a deep trance, while the hypnotists addresses deep seated emotional issues which ultimately affect your physical body and your conscious life.  It’s a powerful concept, and we’ll get more into it later!