Aug 10
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Blow Jobs a Must?
For a lot of men, well, let me rephrase that – about every man alive – blow jobs are a really important part of keeping an interesting, sexy and satisfying sex life and partnership with their partner. Ask any guy about whether he enjoys a good blow job, and he will answer yes, unless he is from another planet or perhaps another culture other than this one.
Oral sex is an essential part of overall sexual satisfaction for a lot of guys, and it’s a major complaint that women don’t want to do them a whole lot. Now, of course you do have the ladies who like to give them, but let’s be honest guys – would you want to spend several minutes on your knees doing something that probably is totally boring and feels like a waste of time if you were a busy woman?
Probably not – so hey guys, our women do them because they love us, and they know we love oral sex, and that’s the bottom line. They are a fun part of a healthy sexual relationship. Sexual relationships that stay exciting and fun are the ones where couples really change things up a lot.
After all, even if you’re totally gaga for someone and love having sex with them, let’s face it, doing it missionary style wears thin after a while. We are human, and we like to experiment and we like variety. We never like to be in a sexual rut, and that is exactly where a lot of couples find themselves.
Maybe you and your partner could discuss what you feel is acceptable for alternatives to sexual intercourse, and agree on how you could pleasure eachother otherwise, and how often it should be. Shoot, this kind of stuff should really be discussed before marriage – it might lead to a lot less cheating and divorce, and help a lot of couples be nice to eachother.
After all, it’s way easier to be nice to one another when there is no sexual frustration in the partnership and both partners feel satisfied in the sack.
