Jan 09
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Are Women “Gold Digger” Lovers?
There have been some recent studies that would seem to indicate that there is a strong possibility that women derive more sexual pleasure from having sexual relations with men who have higher balances in their bank acccounts, retirement plans, and liquid asset and cash flow. Does this mean that the ever persistent stereotype of women, especially certain types of women, being “gold diggers” like in the famous Kanye West song that caught on just a few short years ago?
We’ve all got an image in our head of what a gold digging woman looks like, and usually she looks well kept, and a little overdone, and “high maintenance”, but these new studies and surveys suggest that women, no matter what walk of life they came from and what they look like, tended to report higher frequency of orgasms and sexual pleasure (see female sexual enhancement for more on this) as well as satisfaction when their lovers were more well to do men who had financial security and spent their money generously.
Does this mean that your seemingly warm hearted, well meaning, kind and down to earth partner may be in fact, down deep a gold digger? Well no, it doesn’t really mean that, and there are certainly people who exhibit their natural predispositions in unseemly ways, such as women who really pursue that stereotype in the way they carry themselves and their moral compass, but it looks like women are genetically programmed over all these years of evolution, to seek out and gain satisfaction in lovers who have financial security.
It’s not the money itself, in reality it’s the female predisposition to seek out partners in life and sexual preference who are good “providers” for their offspring. So in reality, it’s actually a survival instinct, a mechanism of protection and providing for their children, that is the underlying reason for women to seek out men who are financially stable. Think about it. Men are genetically programmed to seek out women who look a certain way and have certain waist to hip ratios because down deep, our instincts tell us that those women are more fertile. It’s the human condition to want to further our specie’s growth, development and properity, and these are just some of the ways they exemplify those tendencies. It seems unattractive but really it’s the reason that the human species has evolved so effectively.
Does this mean that to bag the babes you want to, you need to have a colossal bank account and money at your disposition at all times to do anything you want? Not necessarily, but financial stability, responsibility and security is a good idea, if not to get the women you want, but also for the purpose of fulfilling your own dreams. What is not a good idea is being irresponsible with money or becoming bogged down in debt, that will never attract the right women, opportunities, or fortune into your life. There’s a good in between, you just have to find what that is for yourself.
