Are Men Really Ready for Sex Any Time?

I hate to break it to the ladies who might believe that us men are super-sexed up freaks all the time, ready to dive in, so to speak, at the drop of a hat, to a great sexual interlude, but it’s not true.  Maybe there are a few men out there that fit this bill, I’m sure there are since there are always the one offs to every rule, but most men defy this mythology of men constantly wanting and ready for sex, and they actually have to “be in the mood” if you can believe that, kind of like a woman.

Albeit, we may get turned on or typically want sex more than the average woman, but we still need to have some sort of a turn on that occurs, we’re not just always ready with the flip switch. We actually have a breaker that needs to be tripped, so to speak!  So I’ve found out being in a relationship with my girl for several years now, that a lot of women have this misconception about men, and they actually get sort of hurt if they’re in the mood and you happen to not so much be in the mood.

Of course this doesn’t usually happen in the first year or so of a relationship, because you’re generally ready to tear eachother’s clothes off at any given moment during those formative months of a relationship, but as time goes on, and more is required to keep things spicy and interesting, these cases can crop up more and more where you and your woman don’ t really sync up with eachother on the desire spectrum and therefore you keep missing the beat to go at it when you’re both in the mood.  Such is life, and such is relationships!

But yes, ladies if you are reading this, it’s not just your guy, and no, he’s most likely not falling out of love with you, but most men do have to be stimulated or be in the mood in the first place to engage in sexual intercourse with you.  you could be a supermodel, and this is still the case with most men, so it’s not you, it’s us.  Of course, there are tons of great libido enhancers that you can use to get us in the mood, so make sure you have your little bag of sexy tricks stuffed with those my friends!