I have to admit, I’ve heard this old abstinence thing for a few weeks (some people even do months, oy vey!), before you get married is a very curious thing to me.  Not so much because I don’t get it.  As a guy, I have a hard time believing that this makes for anything other that a lot of sexual frustration – at least for the guy, since most guys have more of a need to “release themselves” more often than women do – it’s just a physiological truth if you ask me – but more so because I wonder what it accomplishes for the couple who decides to do this novel idea before they get hitched.

Let’s clear up what we’re talking about.  We’re talking about an engaged couple who decides that (usually the woman decides this, in most cases I’ve heard), they will not have sex or sexual relations for a couple of weeks before they get married. The idea is to build up a steaming passion that will just burst on your wedding night into a night of erotic ecstasy.  However, sometimes it doesn’t really work out that way.  Think about it, on your wedding night, sex may be one of the last things on your mind for all you know.

I will say however that as a guy, when it’s been a while since we’ve had sexual intercourse or any type of sexual touching, we are ready to burst.  However, it’s not always good, because this frustration can actually leak out into other parts of our lives and make us feel angry, frustrated, and more anxious.  Yeah, men really are that affected by sex sometimes!  It does of course make you crave it all that much more as well, so I get the idea behind this approach to making sure you have a great night of passionate love making on the night of your wedding, or heck, the day after for that matter.

I also must warn the ladies who think this is a good idea about this before the final decision is made.  Well, there’s this little piece of physiological truth about men . When you haven’t had sex for a while, when you do finally have sex, well, you don’t really last long at all.  In other words, yes, you will have a two pump chump on your hands, so don’t expect any long winded, romantic lovemaking session, it may very well be just minutes long!  However, you can try taking a supplement like Deer Antler Plus or Natural Gain Plus to get the necessary momentum going and keep it going for a longer time.

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