Abstinence Before Wedding a Good Idea?

Hmm, I’m debating this one.  My fiance thinks it’s a good idea, that it will make sex all that much more interesting and exciting on our wedding night, which isn’t too far off now, but I’m somehow doubting that this really works for men?  I don’t know, We’ve never really gone more than one week without being intimate in some sexual fashion, so it should be interesting if she gets her way and there’s no whoopie of any sort for the next two weeks (maybe a little more depending on where we draw the no sex line).  What do you think?

Here’s my concern with abstaining from sex or sexual intimacy for a while before the wedding. What if this builds too much angst and we are at eachother’s throats, nonetheless right before our special day? Shoot, this could be bad, we could get into a big fight and the wedding would be off. But alas, that probably won’t happen, but I am concerned because if I go to long without sex of some sort, I have a lot of pent up agression and anxiety, and that often exhibits itself in me being a total a@#hole, I’ll totally admit it.

On the other hand, it could be kind of cool to have a real reason to look forward to the day, besides sweaty palms and performance anxiety over the whole cermonial thing and reception thing that’s not coming til later, but still, there’s the anxiety about your families mingling together ok and then with the added anxiety of not having that sexual release, that might make for one great night of sexual ecstasy, who knows?

That’s what I’m hoping. There are lots of women who are really into this whole idea, but not surprisingly, a lot of guys think it’s pretty lame. I’m not sure which camp I’m in yet.  Time will tell if I become a ticking testosterone bomb or not that just needs to go off one way or another. It could definitely not be pretty!