Men Can Learn from Women Scorned Stories!

Boy oh boy, that dude that made up with his wife sure did piss off his mistress!  You probably read the story, it was on pretty much every major news outlet, since the guy is a head honcho over at Oracle, one of the biggest software companies in Silicone valley, and also happens to be an advisor to the Obama administration as well.  If you haven’t read about the story yet, here it is, and lesson be learned to all men who lead ladies to believe something else or happen to break up with them the wrong way, especially ladies who believe in revenge and vengefulness, you gotta watch out for people like that in your life, actually no matter what sex you’re talking about.

Now, I’m not trying to be chauvenistic here, we all know that men can be just as vindictive as women when they feel they’ve been wronged by the opposite sex, but you have to be particularly careful in how you deal with ending things with partners, especially if they seem particularly hurt or have expressed that you’ve given them mixed signals.

That’s exactly what it sounds like happened to the Oracle guy. Apparently he had a years-long affair with a woman, and yes, he is married and has a child with his wife.  The mistress found out that he had reconciled with his wife, and to get back at him, she posted billboards in major cities of the two of them in a sort of nuzzling, affectionate position that was clear they were more than just friends.

The man has come out and acknowledged the affair, but says that the two ended the affair on amicable terms and will remain friends. Sounds like someone is in denial about how this relationship ended, and it may not the be one who went off and did the crazy ex thing of posting billboards!  Relationships and love are funny, but when people get hurts it’s really not, and it can turn ugly fast.