As I watch lots of old couples get on famously, and er, not so famously, as in those ones that seem to constantly pick eachother apart and insult eachother in front of others or try to bring the other guy  down, I always wonder to myself, gosh if they act this way to eachother day in and day out, how do they ever want to have sex with eachother? 

So, I tried a little experiment, I’ve been with my girlfriend now for several years, we are not married, but sometimes we can bicker as though we are, and you can tell we are a “seasoned” couple by the way we interact with eachother.  We treat eachother very well, but there always comes a time in any relationship where the honeymoon is over and people start acting like, well, themselves. 

They start farting in front of eachother, letting eachother know what they really think of that awful morning breath, and heck, sometimes the gloves even come off and the insults start to fly, hopefully only to made up for later with a great session of sex of making out, if there is such a thing after you’ve been with someone that long.  My little experiment involved making a point of it to complement my partner every day, with one sincere, heartfelt compliment, and not withholding it like I might usually. 

Something like “I love when you do that”, or “you make me laugh”, or “you look beautiful today”.  Something that is meaningful and truthful, that you seem to just stop saying to the people you love for no good reason, when that “honeymoon” period is over.  And guess what?  The compliments made our sex life better.  I found that my partner was more willing and ready to jump in bed, felt more romantic and sexy, and also started to compliment me back, which made me feel sexy, wanted, and manly, and wanting to jump her bones. 

You see, men are not just about their penis and no feelings - they are moved by the same things women are, it’s just that women tend to hold grudges for things more than men and happen to take their grudges out in the bedroom by being unwilling for sexual intercourse, or not very enthused.  Bottom line is, you should be nice to and compliment your partner if you want a long lasting and satisfying sex life and years to come with a meaningful relationship and gratifying sex.  Then, who needs Viagra or Viagra alternatives when you have your very own natural libido enhancer for men?