Sometimes, aren’t we all just too tired to have sex?  Especially when you’ve been with the same partner for a while, sometimes sex seems like a luxury not worth taking over a good solid eight hours of sleep, and we forgo sex to get more shuteye, or to get more projects done around the house, or whatever other excuses we can think of not to have sex. 

All these are bull, because let’s face it, sex doesn’t really take that much time - in many cases a good “quickie” can literally take five to ten minutes, so why do we sometimes deny ourselves and our partners of sexual relations, which is such a vital part of a relationship that people take for granted?  Sex not only releases tension, but it makes people feel closer to eachother. 

I can say for myself, that when my partner and I are going through a dry spell for some sort of bull excuse like I mentioned above, the lack of sex seems to drive us apart, making our communication seem disjointed, and it almost makes you feel like you’re just “room mates” with a person instead of their partner.  Sometimes, it’s like Robin Williams says in Dead Poets Society “Sieze the Day” or Carpe Diem in Greek. 

You must just take the reigns and sieze the day when it comes to sex and intimacy, or else you are slowly killing any intimacy between your and your girlfriend or wife without even knowing it.  Women need sex just as much as men, and your woman isn’t getting any, believe me, it will show in other parts of your relationship. 

You may find that you start to bicker more, and have feelings of resentment toward eachother if the bedroom isn’t on fire a couple times a month AT LEAST, so just get out there, do it!  If you have to, take some Deer Antler Plus or some other sexual enhancement product for men, but just do it!