It is commonly thought that women are the more “emotional” creatures when it comes to sex, and more importantly, when it comes to having an orgasm since women in general do tend to have more of a psychological connection to sex, whereas men are just more biologically driven to copulate. 

Well, as with everything else, this theory has changed, especially due to the changing sexual environment in this world, and perhaps even due to the fact that male testosterone levels have been steadily falling over the past ten to twenty years, as documented in a groundbreaking study recently (see a few posts ago).

Men are actually affected by stress and emotions when is comes to achieving orgasm as well, and as with women, when life is going smoothly and stress and depression or anxiety are kept at bay, it tends to be a lot easier for a man to achieve orgasm.

Some of the tips that can be taken from this fact are to make sure you keep open lines of communication with your sex partner, because they may need to know when you’re in the mood vs. when you’re only doing it to go through the motions.  Don’t make sex into something that is a “requirement”, this just adds more stress to the situation and makes it more difficult for you to achieve orgasm since the mood wasn’t even there in the first place.

Keep stress to a minimum by exercising.  People who don’t exercise may think that exercise is “stressing” or taxing, but it actually makes you ten times more relaxed in the long run, and i know for me at least working out takes the weight right off my shoulders (figuratively not literally of course), and makes me think clearly again. 

Plus, working out has a way of sexually recharging you like nothing else can.  It makes you feel powerful, and more virile.  See this stuff Deer Antler Plus if you want to have more orgasms naturally.