What about your woman?  Are there any tricks you can have up your sleeve to get her all riled up?  The thing is, women treat sex a little differently than men do.  Women are more outerly affected by what’s going on in their head, so it’s often difficult for them to either desire sex or have an orgasm when they’ve got other things on their mind. 

Are there any such things as female aphrodisiacs?  Well, yes there are.  Reportedly women and men both are turned on by certain scents, like the scent of vanilla or lavendar. 

There’s also chocolate.  Many women report feeling a little “hornier” after they’ve consumed rich chocolate.  Chocolate has been known to be somewhat of an aphrodisiac historically, as well as some seafoods, most notably oysters, although this is more of a male aphrodisiac than a female aphrodisiac. 

Aphrodisiacs are a little different than another phenomena which are called human pheromones, these are actually the precursors to sexual attraction, while an aphrodisiac will actually make someone want to have sex more, rather than inexplicably draw them to a person of the opposite sex, like pheromones do.

Female aphrodisiacs reportedly can help women achieve orgasm faster, since once a woman becomes sexually aroused, it is easier for her to complete the whole process, and have good sex while also achieving a high quality orgasm. 

Other female aphrodisiacs or female sexual enhancers may include the following :

1.) You being nice to her and showing a genuine interest in her, her day and her life and goals.  This may seem like a no brainer, but a lot of men are not into listening or even pretending to care about these things.  This means a lot to women reportedly and they actually get turned on by knowing that you care.  See, they’re much more “cognitive” when it comes to sexual turn ons than men are!

2.)  Put on some cologne.  Even some pheromone cologne designed to attract women - this will attract her on a subconscious level, which can also lead to sex and feelings of intimacy again.

3.)  Wine can be a huge aphrodisiac.  Many women report feeling “in the mood” after sipping a glass of red wine.