Do you have an unexpectedly sexy time with your loved one or spouse sometimes?  When I say “sexy time”, I mean those moments that are not traditionally sexy or wanton, like grocery shopping, or cooking dinner.  Somehow a lot of us have interludes or thoughts of sexual interludes when we’re doing the most unexpected things together. 

Take for example cooking dinner.  Cooking dinner together can be a great aphrodisiac, as long as neither of you gets in the others way or suddenly become Atila the Hun in the kitchen, bossing and barking orders (or maybe that’s your thing). 

Doing anything domestic and traditional together often unites couples in a bond where they just might be turned on by watching their women toss the pasta, or slice the garlic for the sauce, or watch their man steam the veggies or sautee the mushrooms. 

It does sound silly, but many couples do report they find their significant other irrestistable when they are doing the following usually mundane tasks together : Grocery shopping, cooking, working out together, going to dinner parties, clothes shopping, visiting the parents, and others ranked high on the affection and sex-sparking ometer for many couples, who’d been together for ranging periods of time.