Have you guys (or girls - whatever) heard of the sex position piece of furniture called “The Liberator”? I’ve seen this thing advertised discreetly in the backs of womens and mens magazines, and I’ve gotta admit I’m intrigued.

Gosh, can you imagine how much fun you could have with that? I think the whole idea behind it is to kind of feel a little kinkier, I mean who uses a piece of furniture specifically only for the act of sex? It’s kind of a cool concept, but I do wonder how the hell you’d store the thing discreetly since it looks like it may not be the most space saving item to have around.

BE SPONTANEOUS! Yeah, be spontaneous in your decisions to start making love. Don’t
always “set a date” or a time for sex - have it when the mood strikes you. You think your partners butt looks especially good today? Go over there and squeeze it -you’ll be surprised what spontaneous acts of flirtation and affection can do for a sexual encounter. Make the other person feel sexy, wanted and show your passion for them. I can’t tell you how many married couples I know that just think all the spark has gone out of their marriage because they both simply stopped trying.

You’ve gotta work a little to keep the spice in any relationship. I don’t care if your Brangelina, or Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie - you don’t think those two might have a ho-hum sex life some day? I’ve got news for you, slumps happen to us all, no matter how beautiful, rich or famous we may be! We all have to work at keeping sex great!

I ran across some items in a magazine lately that had some interesting ideas on how to spice up your sex life. I will try to remember the general gist of some of them but I’m going to share some of personal views on this from personal experiences. Some of them are the same ol’ “better sex tips” you hear all the time, but some of them I’d never heard, and never tried. So, here goes.

Surprise your lover with something romantic like candles and an erotic video that you can both enjoy. My personal choice would be “The Masseuse” with Jenna Jameson and her husband in it since it’s not just full out porno that guys like and girls hate, but it’s got a story to it, and a little romance - something for ladies and men. Believe me, women love porn just as much as men do, you just have to pick the right one. Love scenes are good too.

Women many times get excited just watching a good love scene in a movie, or a sexually charged movie like 9 1/2 Weeks, Dangerous Liaisons, or even something with great, visually stunning sex scenes with a good looking guy, say like Pierce Brosnan and Renee Russo in “The Thomas Crown Affair”.

Visual turn ons are mostly a male thing, but women get turned on by visuals also, there just has to be a little more to it than “hitting the skins” if you know what I mean.

Don’t eat too much before a sexual rendezvous. One of the biggest sex killers is when your lover and yourself have just plowed down enough food to kill a horse. Who wants to have sex when you are all bloated and may even have gas? Not sexy at all. Eat light and maybe drink a glass or two of wine. Wine is a great natural aphrodisiac for most women, and for some men too.

Skip the talking about mundane. There’s nothing that’s more of a buzz kill than “honey did you take out the trash” or “honey did you remember to pack my lunch for me tomorrow” as you’re undressing eachother. Keep the everyday, mundane conversation out of it. Try talking dirty to eachother. Once you get over the fact that you think you sound ridiculous, and start to realize your partner can get turned on if it’s not viewed as a joke, you will find bedroom talk a huge bonus for both of you!

More great sex tips to come…

Penis Girth - Conitnued

The nerves that are stimulated during sexual intercourse are located near the entrance of the vagina and the anus. Penis girth is significant here since a meatier penis can stretch out the vaginal or anal walls that stimulate the nerves. This creates friction and sensation that most women love during a sexual experience.

Anyway, preference is still based on the individual woman. Because of the points highlighted above, many women have a penchant for larger dicks. But remember, it’s not only a big penis women crave. They seek passion, intimacy and emotional connection. Remember to show her your love by giving her flowers, a sensual massage, or candles with rose petals. Assault her senses with romantic gestures and you’ll be well rewarded. If you have a girthy penis, you’ll be rewarded even more J.

Experiment on different sexual positions and incorporate toys in your love-making. Identify her key erogenous zones (i.e., her clitoris) and come up with techniques to stimulate her — with your tongue, vibrator, fingers, etc.

Penis size is important but it’s also the combination of skill, passion and romance. After all, sex is as much fun as you make it.

The age-old question, “Does size matter?” has been debated for eons. Both men and women alike are interested to know what really gives. Men are obsessed with the size of their penis and many have found ways to make their member larger. That’s why the penis enlargement industry is booming offering everything — from cream, pills, patches, weights, traction devices, and even surgery. The media and the overly-hyped stories of ‘well-endowed’ men have undoubtedly contributed to the already convoluted subject of penis size.

Men with larger organs are regarded to be more manly and better in bed. Thus, “Bigger is better” has become a popular adage. Furthermore, this insight seems to emanate from male vanity rather than the pleasure that your penis can provide. A small penis is equated to diminished masculinity, virility, and at times, also associated to impotency.

But, in fact, most researches have revealed that the average penis size is not the 12” advertised by porn stars. Besides, these porn stars are not representative of the average man. They may very well be more well-endowed than you (this is their luck) or have undergone some enlargement procedure. The average penis size is actually between 5.5 to 6.4 inches in erect length and 4.7 to 5.2 inches in girth.

But countless women have agreed that the length of the penis has not much to do with sexual pleasure; but width may indeed matter in the long run. It has to do with stimulating their G-spot which is supposed to be located about two inches inside the upper wall of the vagina.

You may wonder time to time what factors in to the size of a man’s penis. Generally speaking, genetics do play a large part in determining the size of your penis. Is this to say that if your father was naturally well endowed in the nether regions, you should, by default, also have a large penis?

Well, not to overly generalize or simplify a concept that is actually nearly impossible to scientifically explain, your chances of having a larger than normal penis would be greater, but not necessarily a guarantee by any stretch of the imagination.

Think of it as male pattern baldness. Male pattern baldness is passed from a male generation to generation, much like other physical attributes are passed down through the years and the familial generations. Sometimes, physical traits like how tall you are, what color your hair and eyes are, your natural weight tendencies and yes, your penis size - may skip a generation.

The exact patterns of genetics are largely unknown, although they are of course heavily speculated upon. There is no precise mathematical genetic equation which will determine your penis size, rather it is more happen stance.

This post is going to be dedicated to the review and comparison of the Size Genetics Penis Size Enlargement System. First of all, let’s discuss what exactly the Size Genetics System is, and then we’ll get into why it may be one of the most superior and “really” effective penis enlargement systems out there today. First off, here’s what I like about this product:

1.) Excellent website (see the picture to the right in this blog and click on it for the website. No fake looking “actor” types or porno like pictures promising you a gargantuan, ridiculously sized penis. Any before and after pictures are totally real, not brushed up or anything or “shaded” to make it look bigger. These types of sites are almost always the sign of an ineffective, and often bogus and unreputable product that is just searching for ways to make a buck off of male insecurities. I like to compare these types of sites to the female counterpart of consumer preying with breast enlargement pills which feature before and after pictures of women who’ve obviously had augmentation surgery. Dispicable both for women and men, especially since this is a sensitive subject for most men.

2. I like this product because it provides an overall solution to real, effective penis enlargement. It provides 4 things in one and is well worth the cost when you consider it is an effective alternative to the VERY risky option of having penile augmentation surgery. Size Genetics provides their propietary ProSolution Penis Size enhancement pills, A semen volumizer, a penis enlargmenet device that actually helps to elongate the penis, and a CD with exercises to enlarge the penis both in width, length and girth. It’s no surprise why this is one of the most popular natural penis enhancement and enlargement systems right now.

3. I like what I’ve heard about this product. Real customers have expressed sincere gratitude for such an effective, non rip off product - especially in the world of natural male penis enlargement, which has become rampant with rip off products that don’t work and rely solely on any type of placebo or “wishful thinking” effect for their product to seem like it might work.

4. Some real customer email and snail male reviews are found below. Note that these are real reviews and testimonials on the Sise Genetics Penis enlargement system, and they have PLENTY of them, not just a few piddly, gratuitous and fake sounding testimonials, but real testimony from people who have found this product to be well worth it, as well as an effective, all around solution to penile enlargement.

A Review from a woman about her boyfriend who used Size Genetics:

Subject: my boyfriend
I know this might be strange to get a thank you email from a woman, but my boyfriend started using his stretching device a couple months ago and let me say – wow. Though I never wanted to admit it to him, he was just a little too small for me. Now? He’s the perfect size! I don’t know how the thing works but it sure seems to do he job. Thanks!

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Hi,This is Yoav. I ordered your system 5 months ago. To be honest, I half thought this to be a scam. Boy was I surprised! I have gained a total of 2 inches to my length and 1.5 inches to my girth. I’ve been wearing the stretcher about 3 hours a day (in fact I’m wearing it as I write this!) and I’m utterly happy with my results. Please, if you want post my results on your website. Thank you again, I’m so happy I found you.

If you want to get more customer reviews and testimonials on this effective natural penis size enlargement system, check out the full review and product information we have to the right in this blog of the product and click on it if you want to see a very info-filled website.

OK, so let’s address the cold, hard facts about premature ejaculation and impotence. Do some men perhaps feel that these too conditions may be partially due to the inherent and invetiability of boredom with your partner in the bedroom? Perhaps lack of physical attraction to your partner, or loss of love or mental attraction to your lover? I, while knowing this mere statement may stir up some criticism and nay saying, am going to say - yes, yes yes!

I think that this may have a lot to do with a love life that is less than fulfilling, and also a lot to do with male impotence and premature ejaculation.

Like I said, the idea that simple apathy toward one’s sex partner creates sexual dysfunction problems, or at least aggravates and perpetuates them is a not-often explored one in the world of male enhancement. While this blog does focus on some herbal ways to get the full, hard erections back that you once experienced, I also wanted to focus on free, more “cognitive” ways to enhance your sexual experiences with your partner, or partners, whatever the case may be.

Ever heard of Tantra, or tantric sex? You’ve probably heard of it, but not really given much thought to what it actually is, or how it is put into practice. It ranks right up there with the Kama Sutra - everyone knows what it is, but no one’s actually read or studied it.

Tantric, or tantric is described in the dictionary definition as:

Any of a comparatively recent class of Hindu or Buddhist religious literature written in Sanskrit and concerned with powerful ritual acts of body, speech, and mind.

What this means is a ritualistic, slower and more cognitive way of making love with your partner. It really allows you to explore eachothers bodies and enjoy your orgasms much more fully and openly. It’s somewhat metaphysical, you might say.

“But I Don’t Have Time for Better Sex”

Bull - yes you do. I’m sure there are a million other things you can put aside without devastating circumstances. We’ll talk more about sex - actually about the Kama Sutra and other sensual ways we can enhance our sex lives without medicines.

I was just reading an article on how two supplements that were sold as dietary supplement were just warned by the FDA. Why? Because these “dietary supplements” which are supposed to be all natural actually contained anabolic steroids, which are considered dangerous and can be very damaging to organs and other bodily functions. The supplements were sold as body building and muscle building supplements with an emphasis on strength building as well.

The Two Anabolic Supplements in Question:

Anabolic Xtreme Superdrol
Manufactured for Anabolic Resources LLC of Gilbert, Ariz., and distributed by Supplements To Go of Cincinnati

Methyl-1-P M
Manufactured for Legal Gear of Brighton, Mich., and distributed by Affordable Supplements of Wichita, Kansas

The manufacturers seem to not be very responsive after repeat calls by the press (wonder why). Problems associate with the type of steroids found in these supplements according to the FDA are liver toxicity, testicular atrophy, male infertility, masculinization of women, breast augmentation in males, stunted growth in children, high cholesterol levels and potentially higher risks of heart attack and stroke.

A few months back, I reported that the natural male enhancement pill that was so fervently marketed on TV was being sued for false advertisement.  Apparently Enzyte customers weren’t seeing the results promised, and were mad that they wasted their money.  I believe there may have been some bogus money back guarantee that made it virtually impossible to get your money back if you didn’t get any results too.

Anyways, I haven’t seen any Enzyte commercials in a while - wonder how they’re doing, or if they landed in legal hot water??? I’ll keep you posted.