First of all, think of what the first three letters spell in the word “hotel”. You’ve got HOT. So it’s no wonder that sex in these modern day overnight temporary living quarters have earned a reputation of sorts for men and women who are looking to spice up their sex life a bit.
I can’t tell you how many married friends of mine get excited to just spend a few nights in a hotel with their spouse so that they can have that wilder, more uninhibited sex that they may not be able to have as much at their homestead. Not that sex at home isn’t also awesome. Of course it is.
However, at a hotel you just don’t have the same constant distractions that you have at home. Especially if you have kids. Of course, this depends on whether this happens to be a kids-free hotel stay or not as well. If it is, then you have instant adult time where there is a 100% guarantee that no one will hear you (except the neighbors which are strangers anyway).
You’re also guaranteed that no one will walk in on you, interrupt you, or judge you. Plus, you don’t have all those other things clouding your mind so you can focus on sex and your partner. Women don’t need to be thinking about the loads of laundry waiting in the other room, or the dishes that need to be done or any of the other number of chores that make home sex a constant struggle to stay on topic.
Also, you don’t feel like you really have to be neat. There may be a tendency to always have sex on the bed in your home, or with a sheet covering the nicer bedspread. At a hotel, you know that the linens get washed every time in between visitors, so you can really just be messy and sexy without worrying too much about “cleaning up” after yourselves.
Often times, hotels will have different types of furniture, like a bench or a chair, so you can even move to other furniture to spice it up a little more, try some different positions on these different pieces of furniture, and just experiment a bit like you did when you first met eachother and can barely wait to rip eachothers clothes off.
Hotels also offer a change of atmosphere. There’s usually an element of excitement and mystery. You also have a bar at your disposal at most hotels, so you can go down, have a drink or two, get a little tipsy and neither of you needs to worry about driving home.
It’s really a load off when neither of you has to worry about these seemingly banal although admittedly important issues for safety and good citizenship. So, take your honey to a hotel. Even if it’s just the next town over, pretend like it’s somewhere far away, where the dishes, chores and duties of your everyday life seem miles away…