Millions of men suffer, at least time to time if not consistently, with the embarrassing problem of premature ejaculation. I believe that the definition of PE as it is termed, is if you come in under one minute. Hey, if you’re going for three minutes or more, which is actually the typical average for men having sex, then you’re pretty much the gold standard, and if you are going longer than that consistently then hey, you’re pretty much a lady’s dream studmuffin!
But lots of men do suffer from this embarrassing problem, and I can almost guarantee that every guy reading this right now has had this problem at one time or another. We all have, and it’s never really fun apologizing for it to our mates.
But there is a spray called PSD502 that is being tested right now for possible inclusion in the US market by the FDA for approval, and it is basically a spray that helps men overcome premature ejaculation. It helps men do this by essentially desensitizing the tissue to sensation, so that a man can go longer.
Premature ejaculation is mostly due to too much sensitivity. A man who typically has consistent problems with PE probably experiences TOO MUCH sensation, too quickly, and that is usually why he comes too quickly. We men ejaculate when we are at the peak of our excitement – well at least, ideally. So, if we can find a way to put that sensation off, then we can go much longer in the sack without feeling too much.
The only problem is the flip side of this. It’s not clear how long this spray desensitizes your penis for. You wouldn’t want it to last for hours, because of course your partner doesn’t want to go for hours, neither do you. You also do want to ejaculate at some point, or this results in a whole different type of sexual frustration. This spray may be time released so that it only lasts to numb your penis for a certain amount of time, I’m not sure.
The formula for this premature ejaculation spray includes two numbing agents, one of them being the well known lidocaine.
Apparently having bad luck finding a life partner for men not only affects their happiness (obviously, this is also true for women), but it also may have a fairly significant impact on their longevity, or life span. There have been many studies that show that men who are in happy marriages and partnerships are not only happier, but they also tend to enjoy better health than their unattached counterparts.
There have been many theories about this, but one of them tends to be the psychological impact that having a mate you enjoy having around, not only sexually, but also on a mental level. We all know that psychological and mental health tend to impact our physical health as well. For example, many studies have shown that those who are generally happier people tend to get sick less often and are therefore assumed to have a better immune system.
Men who live in areas where there is more competition to find the love of their lives tend to have shorter life spans than men who live in areas where it is easier to find their mates. The exact reasons aren’t known, but the theory is that the marriage making men happier and also making their lifespans longer has something to do with this unfortunate statistic.
What’s the lesson here? If you live somewhere that it’s hard to find your mate – move somewhere else where the female companionship likelihood is much higher.
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Well, this most certainly isn’t a great statistic for women who happen to be the major breadwinners in their relationship. Apparently, women who bring home the majority of the money in the household, or earn significantly more than their husbands or partners, are actually cheated on more than women who earn less than their men, or women who actually rely on their man for all the money. You see, there are two ends of the spectrum here.
Women who earn way more money, and also women who earn way less or totally depend on their husbands financially actually tend to get cheated on more. So it seems that being at either end of this spectrum doesn’t bode well for your chances of getting cheated on for the poor ladies!
Researchers who have been studying this curious statistic have theories as to why this is true, and I happen to totally agree with them because when I heard the statistics, I thought the same thing.
Women who earn way more may be unintentionally hurting their man’s precious ego by earning more and somewhat emasculating the man, since tradition still dictates that men should be the breadwinners. Although this archaic idea is really being shoved aside by more modern realities – like women being very much more dominant in the workplace, it still is a commonly held traditional idea that is unknowingly perpetuated in the male and female dynamic in a relationship.
Also, men tend to cheat more on women who are totally financially dependent on them. Since many times this sort of situation involves a lot of business travel and time being away from home for the man, the theory is that it offers a more broad opportunity for cheating. After all, it’s theoretically easier to cheat when you’re not even in town.
Often times highly paid jobs that can support two people and a family involve travel, so that is why this was factored in to the equation for the women totally supported by men. Counter to that, these same women who are totally financially dependent are much less likely to cheat on their spouses than other women. Go figure!
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Hey guys, Jill here again with news in the world of sexual contraception. Yup, that good stuff that lets adults be sexually active adults like they should be, without all the resultant kiddies that would have occurred if we didn’t have access to the most effective forms of birth control ever today.
We’ve come a long way, after all, from the archaic birth control pills of yesteryear that caused dramatic hormonal effects and had the poor women using them almost willing to have ten kids just not to be on the pill!
The new choice available to women is another back up plan one, that can be taken post-coital, as a way to prevent pregnancy from fully taking effect after you have had unprotected sex or the condom broke or some similar situation which has you worried about unintended pregnancy.
Plan B is the contraceptive that women can take up to three days after unprotected sexual intercourse which will prevent pregnancy, and this one is available to women of all ages, as well as to women without a prescription from a doctor. This new one is a little more stringent on age and on the prescription front, but the good news is that it adds another two days of protection in their for good measure, giving you a total of five days protection.
It has been tested and has been shown to be both safe and effective for preventing unwanted pregnancy in women who have had oopsie sex. Now, if they could only come out with a good birth control pill which truly had absolutely no side effects, I’d be totally stoked about that one.
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Hey everyone, Jill here again talking about a problem that plagues more women than our men would like to think unfortunately. For many women, and I’m talking to the tune of maybe 70% or more, as I believe personally that numbers are underreported on this problem, orgasms and even the desire to have sex very often or the female libido, is lacking so much that they eventually lose the interest in having sex with their partner at all.
I think that women in general are more susceptible to sexual burnout when it comes to being with a partner for a long time, because we are such psychological creatures when it comes to sex. We tend to need new stimulus, and often times, when we are so busy with work, kids, and chores around the house, we tend to lose focus of how much fun we used to have in the sack with our life partners.
There is an overall frustration with the lack of studies being done on female sexual enhancement and sexual satisfaction drugs and products because there is SO MUCH attention on the male aspect of this issue.
Heck, they even get medical coverage often times for impotence and sexual enhancement drugs like Viagra and Cialis. Not that I’m begrudging any man of that right, but let’s face it, it’s frustrating for the ladies who have the same issue but so much less attention on them and also less outlets in which to get help for them.
You do have to wonder why this is, is it because most of the researchers doing this research for drug companies are men? Or maybe drug companies just don’t feel like women care as much about their libido, or that they would actually go out and buy sexual enhancement drugs for themselves, and so they don’t think that there is a real market for it.
There’s gotta be a marketing reason behind it somewhere, or else some company would be making beaucoup bucks off of this huge need that needs to be filled – he he, no pun intended ladies!
The most sensitive areas of the male penis are of course going to differ slightly depending on the guy. However, as it is with female sexual anatomy, there is pretty much a rule of thumb that is rarely broken when it comes to the most sensitive, erogenous part of their sexual organ.
That part for men is the head of the penis, and it is especially sensitive around the rim, or ridge of the penis that is at the very tip. If you’re a woman reading this, test this theory out on your man, and you will find that the tip of the penis is extremely sensitive. For women, the most sensitive area tends to be her clitoris, although this can also vary per woman.
The reason that any part of the body is more sensitive to touch, and therefore more easily sexually aroused, is that it contains more nerve endings than other parts of the body. Nerve endings send signals to the brain in the form of pain or pleasure, depending on what’s going on outside of the body, and the body interprets these signals and dictates how you feel about this form of touch.
One of the best ways to help make the most our of this male hot spot is to pay a lot of attention to when it is being manually stimulated by hand or by mouth. Gentle licking, touching, pulling and light stroking is the best way to help your man out and make him quiver with pleasure and anticipation at what’s next.
Of course, for the guys, pay attention to the clitoris on a woman. Women love when men manually stimulate this area VERY GENTLY with their fingers. Some guys may go too rough, and that’s really not pleasurable. Ask your lady what the right amount of pressure is for this highly sensitive erogenous zone and she’ll be happy to tell you – don’t be shy!
There are men who are totally content with the size of their penis, and then there are the rest of us who, on a good day, think it looks like it’s sufficient – nowhere near the size of a porn star’s prize, but enough to please our mates, and on the worst days, tend to think we’d trade anything to have it just a “little bigger” maybe an inch or two, nothing extravagant, just more length and girth, ya know?
Thankfully, today there are actually ways that you can nonsurgically enlarge the size of your penis. It just takes a fraction of the cost of penile enlargement surgery, and thankfully, a tiny fraction of the risk involved in surgery on such a delicate area of the male anatomy.
Most natural penis enlargement products rely on devices that gently stretch the muscles that are responsible for the length of the penis over time. These muscles are really what’s holding you back from having a longer penis, and if you can manually manipulate it – GENTLY – over time, you can actually make it increase in length.
It’s really the same concept as doing workouts that lengthen certain muscles and create a long, lean look, you just have to make sure you are manipulating it right, and the best penis extenders do that. It’s almost like pilates for your penis. If you’ve ever heard of pilates, then you know it’s an exercise created for women to lengthen and tone the muscles on the arms and legs, and it works wonders over time to do exactly that.
If you combine penis enlargement exercises with the right penis extender, then you are well on your way to enlarging your penis.
For a lot of men, well, let me rephrase that – about every man alive – blow jobs are a really important part of keeping an interesting, sexy and satisfying sex life and partnership with their partner. Ask any guy about whether he enjoys a good blow job, and he will answer yes, unless he is from another planet or perhaps another culture other than this one.
Oral sex is an essential part of overall sexual satisfaction for a lot of guys, and it’s a major complaint that women don’t want to do them a whole lot. Now, of course you do have the ladies who like to give them, but let’s be honest guys – would you want to spend several minutes on your knees doing something that probably is totally boring and feels like a waste of time if you were a busy woman?
Probably not – so hey guys, our women do them because they love us, and they know we love oral sex, and that’s the bottom line. They are a fun part of a healthy sexual relationship. Sexual relationships that stay exciting and fun are the ones where couples really change things up a lot.
After all, even if you’re totally gaga for someone and love having sex with them, let’s face it, doing it missionary style wears thin after a while. We are human, and we like to experiment and we like variety. We never like to be in a sexual rut, and that is exactly where a lot of couples find themselves.
Maybe you and your partner could discuss what you feel is acceptable for alternatives to sexual intercourse, and agree on how you could pleasure eachother otherwise, and how often it should be. Shoot, this kind of stuff should really be discussed before marriage – it might lead to a lot less cheating and divorce, and help a lot of couples be nice to eachother.
After all, it’s way easier to be nice to one another when there is no sexual frustration in the partnership and both partners feel satisfied in the sack.
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This is definitely an odd story, and one that may be a little disconcerting, considering it was one of the things that was passionately fought about when other issues would have seemed a lot meatier (no pun intended he he), than a bunch of male teachers being able to have sex with their partners unencumbered by impotence and premature ejaculation.
The union of teachers made headlines out of Michigan, when they demanded that state funded male sexual performance enhancing drugs and a few other less noteworthy drugs, be included back in their free drug health plan. Apparently there’s a lot of sexual frustration going around in this camp!
The union is claiming that the non-availability of the drugs for the last few years has unfairly discriminated against men and their unique sexual situations. I guess they thought that the new exclusion of drugs such as Cialis, Levitra and Viagra, which would have actually paid for a the salaries of several teachers, was unfair and was causing stress to the poor fellas!
Their request was turned down, and understandably it was argued that there were more important issues at hand, like the fact that teacher’s jobs were being lost and people were losing their livelihoods when what was being discussed was a drug that was usually not medically necessary.
Hey, there’s always the alternatives, like Sinrex, VigRx and more in the land of herbal and natural supplements that will help you get great erections and even better orgasms at least!
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Women really do a lot of things subconsciously when they are ovulating which they are not fully consciously aware of, but that nonetheless weild a stealthy power over their decisions and actions when they are at their most fertile time of the month – aka ovulating.
For those of you who aren’t too familiar with the female anatomical workings, ovulation is the brief period of time each month when a women drops an egg down into the area where it is most easily fertilized by a man’s sperm. It’s the most fertile ground for sexual intercourse to make babies in other words!
Female’s libido and sexuality is a little different than men’s in that there are a lot of subconscious factors going into her mate choices and her other choices that bring her to sexual situations.
There have already been studies proving that women go for more masculine men when they are ovulating if they are single (or heck, sometimes even if they’re not if they’re straying). This makes complete sense, since nature is pretty much perfect and will find a way to perpetuate itself. It’s natures’ way of making us want to multiple basically.
Now, a new study shows that females who are ovulating not only go for more masculine men (broader shoulders, deeper voices, etc.), but they also tend to pick out sexier clothes when shopping, and may even pick out sexier clothes when they are dressing for those days.
This also makes sense when you think about natural selection and the sort of “survival of the fittest” game. Women are basically putting their body’s out there subconsciously, attracting mates, whether they like it or not, to them, when they are at their most fertile.
And there was no difference between women who were in partnerships or single, they all basically dressed more provocatively when they were ovulating. So whether women have a partner or not, they are looking to mate during this time of month, whether they like it or not.
