“Hung” a Great Show About a Guy with a Huge Penis

Thumbs WAY Up for "Hung"

Hey guys, Jill here, to discuss why I think that the new HBO show “Hung” – ok it’s not brand new any more, but I just started watching it on HBO on demand, and I think it’s a great show! I was skeptical at first, thinking it was just going to be HBO’s excuse for showing people having sex a lot of TV, because after all sex sells, and although it does show people having sex a lot, namely the main character, Ray Drecker played by Thomas Jane, there’s a lot more to this show than just penis, erections, and vagina and boobs.

Although, I must admit, even though I’m a women, I’m still a voyeur at heart, and I have to say that I love watching good looking people on film having sex and doing various other sexual deeds – it’s fun, and yes, it’s sort of a turn on if you must know – by the way guys, there are a LOT of women out there who enjoy watching porn and people having sex onscreen too, it’s not just guys as everyone seems to think sometimes.

And, of course, Thomas Jane is fun to look at and he attracts women like crazy, so that part pleases me as a woman greatly!  But the story is a really good one too, honestly, it’s not all about the flesh, albeit good looking flesh.  It’s about a down and out divorced father of two who has a modest paying job as a teacher and coach at a local high school, Ray Drecker. He really hits the skids when his only real possession, his house, burns down and he finds out he has no insurance to pay for the damage.

He attends a millionaire maker type of work shop, where he runs into an old one night stand named Tanya. Tanya’s not much to look at, but she’s got a big heart and they end up in the sack again together (like I said, there’s lots of sex in this show).  Through a series of consequence, they end up deciding to use Ray’s biggest asset – his abnormally large penis, as a business starter. Tanya becomes his “pimp” and they embark on a business venture, and misadventure as you see through several of the mishaps that happen in their first forays into paid sex.

You really feel for the guy though, that’s what makes this show good. Somehow Ray Drecker really resonates with me, because he’s just a regular guy, faced with possible cutbacks at his high school,  and barely making ends meet to begin with, who wants to make something of himself.  His ex wife is played by Anne Heche, and she’s really awesome in this role too, if not a bit weird looking because it looks like she really may have had too much Botox (this is part of the story line too, she’s married to a high end dermatologist, who she left Ray for).

Great show, I recommend you check it out!

Ladies, New Morning After Pill Holds Promise

It used to be that if you had an “oops” moment with your partner, or with a one time or occasional partner, however it was,  and it was unprotected sex, or the condom broke or something else happened where you feared you might become pregnant from the romp, you had only very limited time to call a doctor and have them prescribe for you the most common morning after pill – called Plan B, or marketed under the drug name Levonorgestrel.  From there, if you were more than three days out of the gate with your unprotected or questionably protected sex, you could just forget about it, because it’s effectiveness was only prescribed for three days after the event.

In other words, if it was three days or more after the sexual incident from which you were trying to prevent a full on fertilization of the egg by sperm, then you were SOL and would have to pursue a normal pregnancy termination, which I believe can only be done at 3 months, so a woman would have to be pregnant for three months knowing she was going to terminate the pregnancy, which is an awful psychological thing to go through for most women. And yes, I am Pro Choice, if you can’t tell already, and I’m a woman who has gone through these dilemmas myself and thought about what I would do if that happened to me, so I feel that I am close to the subject matter.

When it comes to female sexuality, a lot of people (and yes, a lot of them are men which I think is particularly unfair since they don’t know what pregnancy is like), seem to think that women don’ t have a choice, and that once they are pregnant, that’s it, they’ve made their choice, and no matter what their life situation or goals or aspirations are, they should just deal with it and have the child and give it up for adoption or take care of it themselves.

That is why the “abortion pill” as it’s been dubbed is such a life saver for a lot of women.  It takes a lot of the ethical considerations, and although it doesn’t get rid of them because it’s been debated at what moment life actually begins, it at least makes it a lot easier on the woman.  A new pill actually allows a woman to take the morning after pill up to 5 days after unprotected sexual intercourse, which is a whole two days more than the current existing 3 day morning after pill, which gives a lot more leeway for a couple or a single woman to have control over their bodies and their life situations.

Men, You Can’t Blame Mid Life Crises Any More!

We’ve all heard that somewhat cliche term now “mid life crisis” or how about midlife crisis mobile? That’s the funny term someone coined for a middle aged man who goes out and buys some ridiculous fast sports car when he has only up until then driven reliable cars like Hondas and Toyotas.  But new research is suggesting that there really is no such thing as a mid life crisis, at least not any more, and not for the modern man (and yes, occasionally women can go through these too, but theyr’e a predominantly male thing).

The new research shows that men and women are typically actually happier as they approach and pass the age of 50, which is officially mid life for the population, who is living longer today than back when this “disorder” was coined by a psychologist to describe the weird things that (typically) men do when they reach this age, like have affairs, go out and do things they’ve never done before, and live life on the wild side a little bit, acting younger than their actual biological age.

You see, research is showing that we as a people are actually evolving and learning to appreciate “mid life”, since we live longer, and the perception is shifting to not being half over, but to being more confident, more knowledegable about yourself, and more secure in your desires and dreams.  People tend to do the things they really truly love with their lives when they reach this age because they are past a lot of the self judgment and self doubt that plagued them in their earlier years. Sounds good, now mid life doesn’t sound so bad at all!  It’s not all having to pop Viagra for sexual performance, and drinking beer on the sofa, only to go to a dead end job the next day!

Men Can Learn from Women Scorned Stories!

Boy oh boy, that dude that made up with his wife sure did piss off his mistress!  You probably read the story, it was on pretty much every major news outlet, since the guy is a head honcho over at Oracle, one of the biggest software companies in Silicone valley, and also happens to be an advisor to the Obama administration as well.  If you haven’t read about the story yet, here it is, and lesson be learned to all men who lead ladies to believe something else or happen to break up with them the wrong way, especially ladies who believe in revenge and vengefulness, you gotta watch out for people like that in your life, actually no matter what sex you’re talking about.

Now, I’m not trying to be chauvenistic here, we all know that men can be just as vindictive as women when they feel they’ve been wronged by the opposite sex, but you have to be particularly careful in how you deal with ending things with partners, especially if they seem particularly hurt or have expressed that you’ve given them mixed signals.

That’s exactly what it sounds like happened to the Oracle guy. Apparently he had a years-long affair with a woman, and yes, he is married and has a child with his wife.  The mistress found out that he had reconciled with his wife, and to get back at him, she posted billboards in major cities of the two of them in a sort of nuzzling, affectionate position that was clear they were more than just friends.

The man has come out and acknowledged the affair, but says that the two ended the affair on amicable terms and will remain friends. Sounds like someone is in denial about how this relationship ended, and it may not the be one who went off and did the crazy ex thing of posting billboards!  Relationships and love are funny, but when people get hurts it’s really not, and it can turn ugly fast.

Women Can Now Dye Their Vajayjays

My Pink Button - New Vagina Confidence?

Hey guys, Jill L here, guest writer from a lady’s perspective, which no offense guys, you all need once in a while!  Anyways, I had to write about this interesting article I read a few days ago because I think it’s bordering on comical, and yet is marketing genius at the same time to an increasingly sexually aware and sexualized society we live in. We live and breathe for sex – and food, but you know what I men, sex is great, and that’s why sexual enhancement products for women and men is such a huge field and hotly talked about item. I’ll be the first to admit I have quite a few experience with fun sex toys and experimentation under my belt!

I never really thought about this aspect of the female sexual anatomy, but as we women get older, our nether regions, which are normally pink and plump looking when we are young, actually turn a brownish color as we age. Yuck, I know, not something I’m going to be happy to discover when I happen to be mucking around down there when I get older, I’m sure.  This is probably due to hormonal changes and just aging in general.

Not really sure what the exact physiological cause of it is, but the bottom line is it is something that women of a certain age may find not so attractive or alluring about themselves as they get older, and may want to change or help it change color back to it’s more youthful stance.

That’s where a new, quirky product called My Pink Button comes in. This product is actually a body safe dye that women can use that will tint their privates back to a pink color. It is is a consumption safe food dye that actually helps turn the area back into it’s youthful pink, supple look.  And they said there were no cosmetics for the vajayjay – just look at this now!  I do wonder though, how often they think someone’s going to be right down there in their business to actually see the color of their labia and other external parts like their clitoris.

Shoot, there must be some ladies that get lucky quite often in that department to make such a great market for something like this for a fairly obscure and hidden part of the female anatomy.  But, there is a market for just about everything, and this surely is a niche that will have ladies wanting more if it really works and makes them feel better about themselves. Hmm, should our next topic be about giving women oral sex?  I think a lot of women may feel their partners neglect this area for them and a lot of women really like this, so let’s talk about that topic next time!

Men Evolving Faster than Women?

Could It Be?

Wow, this could certainly be a controversial statement, and I certainly wouldn’t want to be standing in a room of staunch feminists if I were the scientist that was trying to make this claim, but some evidence of chromosomal and DNA research is showing that the Y chromosome (this is what actually makes a man a man), which is expressed in the males of the human species, is actually showing that it evolves faster than the female chromosome, which may allude to the fact that men are on track to evolve quicker than women will.

Of all the human chromosomes out there, the Y chromosome seems to be the one that is evolving the quickest, and it’s showing in monkeys, our closest relatives genetically speaking too, in fact that’s how scientists found out about this rapid evolution – from male chimpanzees, who are our closest relative when it comes to animal-human relations.

What does this mean exactly?  Well, not too much on the surface, everything pretty much seems to be the same to us here at the surface of humanity, but below, there is much to study as it can have implication on genetic research from here going forward that can help treat and cure disease and other things.

The interesting part about the y chromosome is that several years back, science hypothesized that the Y chromosome would die out and that men would eventually become exinct, with women inheriting the world. Interesting….

Dirty Love Poem

Ok, I don’t know why, but this strikes me as so funny, it just popped in my head.  I’m weird…

From girl to guy:

Your sh@% stinks and your farts smell worse

Your obsession with anal is really perverse

However, when I think of all of the rest, your penis to me, my dear, is still simply the best.

Men and Women Experience Sexual Arousal Differently

While it seems that women may be more in touch with their bodies when it comes to health issues and other things that have to do with our bodies telling, or screaming something at us, where we may need to give it some attention or maybe go see a doctor, and men tend to either blatantly ignore or turn off  their subconscious cues to things like that, men may have the better senses when it comes to sexual arousal – what a shock!  That’s right, men’s mind and body are better melded when it comes to the link between the physiological responses that indicate sexual arousal and the mindfulness, or psychological awareness, that they are sexually aroused.

Interestingly, when men are sexually aroused in a physically tangible way, they know it almost instantaneously, whereas if a woman’s genitals are showing signs of sexual excitement, then she is more likely to report that she does not feel any sexual arousal whatsoever at that moment.  Of course, men do sport a lot more physical evidence that is obvious in this manner, since penile erections are so much more obvious and physically evident than a woman’s genitalia showing the less obvious and more discreet and hidden signs of sexual excitement in her more hidden genitals.

So I thought, this study seems kind of pointless because a man’s erection is so much more visibly obvious than a woman’s arousal, but then I read on and discovered that men know even at the beginning of an erection that they are feeling sexual excitement, so they still have a better mind body connection when it comes to this. Also, when shown pictures of women that are sexual in nature, men reported sexual feelings right away, whereas women were not aware they were sexually aroused but by their phsysical response, they were.

This might indicate findings that are useful in the study of how to get rid of ED, or erectile dyfunction since it shows that men definitely have a lot more of a mental connection to their sexual arousal than previously thought, but it also may help with new female sexual enhancement products as well since it helps scientists understand how a woman’s mind works when it comes to her sexual thoughts and her physiological responses that comes after these thoughts of stimuli.  Interesting stuff, definitely, and it goes to show that men do put sex as a lot bigger role in their lives and their conscious thoughts than women do, which I think is something that we’ve always suspected.

Sex : Location, Location, Location

When it comes to changing things up in you and your partner’s sex life, then you really need to go the way of the home shopper and think “location, location, location”. You know how important location is when you are buying a home. Shoot, it can determine how much you pay for the home, how much it will resell for, and is probably the single largest determining factor of the intrinsic value of that home. There’s a reason. Location means a lot to people, whether they are attending a country club, a restaurant, or  a workout facility. Heck, where your job is located is a huge deal too.

That’s because location makes things a lot different in your perspectives.  That goes for sexual intimacy as well.  Did you ever slip into that same bed, or that same place where you and your main squeeze seem to ALWAYS do the nasty, and just envision the same old romping as you’ve had every other time?  That’s because, like positions, the actual physical location of where you’re having intercourse make all the difference in the excitement and meaningfulness factor of your enjoyment of sex as well.

I recently had this epiphany, although it wasn’t really an epiphany since I knew for me that location made all the difference when it came to the kink and excitement factor of sexual interludes in the past. Why should it be any different today? The thing is, with these sorts of nuances and rules to good, fun sex, we tend to fall into ruts and habits and simply forget about the more exciting ways to get it on.

My husband and I recently were going to our usual location to have sex, and I had already visualized what our whole sexual experience was going to be like at that moment. Why? Because we’ve had sex in that same exact spot hundreds of times, and it was hard not to pigeonhole it into that same rerun in my mind.

I immediately turned around to him and said, hey, we need to go somewhere else, I realized how we were getting in a rut of doing it in the same place almost every time for quite a few months.  And guess what?  The sex was much less predictable and much more sexy, fun and exciting!  Talk about such a seemingly minor thing have major consequences on both of our enjoyment of sexual intimacy, that’s an example if I ever saw one.

So, with your lover, make sure you make it a point to change up locations and make it hot and sexy. Heck, it’s your house or your apartment to do as you please – get wild and crazy and do it on the kitchen or bathroom counter – the bathroom counter is especially naughty feeling because you have mirrors right in front of you, adding to that all important kink factor.

Urban Meyer : Good Example of Work Life Balance Problem

The infamous Florida Gators college football coach Urban Meyer, is the perfect example of why highly motivated men (and yes, women for that matter as well), who have high pressure, but high passion and also very rewarding jobs, often struggle to find a good balance between their work and their personal lives and health. Urban Meyer recently cited his health as the reason that he was going to step down, but then quickly rebounded and said that he may be coming back in August.

Ah, the typical afterthoughts of a self confessed workaholic.  Hopefully he can handle that, and he is still going to not be selling himself and his family short, but odds are, men who are very highly motivated and used to the pressures and excitement of such a high demand but high payoff job, are often addicted to their work and tend to forget about their health, happiness, and the happiness of their family, who often misses their presence.  While men who are highly motivated are usually great to be around, they also find that they are pulled in a million different directions, and that pressure is often hard on the heart, the blood pressure, and the overall balance and happiness, and peace in their lives.

As a bit of a workaholic myself, I can attest to the damage it can do to your personal life, but I can also attest that it feels incredibly rewarding when all your hard work finally pays off and you just get this overwhelming sense of gratitude for what life has given you, and also an incredible sense of accomplishment and fulfillment. I think that is what most workaholics find to be very addicting, it’s not just the money and attention that comes with success, but it is looking in the mirror and knowing you’ve accomplished your goals and that you are doing what you were meant to do with your life and your God given skills.

Urban Meyer is probably feeling an intense struggle with these issues now, if I had to guess, but like most men who are high achievers, there may be a breaking point where he has to make a decision one way or another, and I’m sure it will be the toughest decision of his life. Not that I know that guy or anything, but I definitely know the type and high achievers often find it difficult to know when enough is enough and they need to give their bodies and their minds a break for their own health’s sake.